am a Cancer and my fiancé is a Gemini. Before he came along I always had bad luck with the Gemini’s. However, he and I get along great with each other and I honestly feel that I am loved by him. I know that I love him! I have read some things about Gemini and Cancer and they are all negative but I just wonder if the heart may be able to overcome all of that before we make a life long commitment.
2006-10-09 12:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by I'm learning. 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
By the way I am born on 23rd of December at 2315 hours in Stockholm Sweden and my Midheaven sign is 10th house of GEMINI.
When Gemini and Cancer come together in a love affair, it may be a rather curious relationship. Sensitive, emotional Cancer has trouble communicating clearly, but clear communication is what defines Gemini. Gemini's chivalrous nature and silver tongue may encourage the Crab to come out of its shell more quickly than usual; Cancer, in turn, can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate the world, which the frenetic Twins hardly ever take time to do. If Gemini seems to ignore Cancer or doesn't provide them with as much reassurance and intimacy as Cancer needs, trouble may ensue. These two Signs approach the world in such different manners that they must be able to understand and accept one another's differences. Cancer is the Sign of home and hearth, while Gemini is the thinker. Gemini can easily slip into the role of Cancer's knight in shining armor; Cancer returns that favor with their characteristic urge to protect the ones they love. Quality of home life is important to Cancer, and Gemini will be spoiled by their Cancer lover's hearty home cooking, soft bed and other creature comforts. Cancer is strongly intuitive and maintains an almost psychic connection with their loved ones, but can tend toward possessiveness and idealization of their Gemini partner. If Gemini just reassures Cancer that they're loved and cherished, all will go smoothly. Gemini is ruled by the Planet Mercury (Communication) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Cancer tends to keep their emotions bottled up inside as they have trouble expressing themselves. They envy Geminis their gift of open, clear communication afforded by the influence of Mercury. Gemini, in turn, can benefit from Cancer's intuitive approach, so different from Gemini's bubbly, surface nature; Cancer can teach Gemini to slow down and appreciate life instead of passing by the good things in their rush to get to the next new thing. Gemini is an Air Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. If these two Signs can work together they can be a great team; after all, the best decisions are made by incorporating the emotions and the intellect. The trouble for these two lies in learning to cooperate. They come from such opposite points of view that at times it can seem as if they simply have nothing in common. Deep, emotional Cancer can also sometimes dampen Gemini's airy enthusiasm, and light, fast-paced Gemini can leave Cancer feeling ruffled, even tattered. Balance can be achieved if they learn to talk openly with one another. Gemini is a Mutable Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Signs. Gemini is flexible, willing to go with the flow and follow another's lead; Cancer is an initiator and likes to provide that lead. Gemini may try to lead by being brave, even confrontational; for it to run smoothly between these two, they both need to learn when to back down and let the other lead the way. What's the best aspect of the Gemini-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're allies, they can soar to great heights together. Gemini is always thinking ahead and Cancer is quietly supporting these ideas behind the scenes. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes theirs a fulfilling relationship.
2006-10-09 19:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Echo Forest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEMINI AND CANCER
Passionate Cancer fulfills Gemini's physical needs, and Gemini's cheerfulness brightens Cancer's disposition. But all too soon Gemini's tendency to play at love wounds oversensitive Cancer. Flirtatious Gemini makes Cancer feel very insecure and an affair is likely to be volatile. These two have too little in common for a long term relationship. Cancer needs security and domesticity; Gemini loathes being tied down. Gemini hasn't any patience with Cancer's moodiness, and Gemini's sharp tongue Is too biting for Cancer's fragile ego. They are doomed to a downhill run.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-10-09 21:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a cancer but I have never been with a Gemini. I know that We get along as friends but not sure about the relationship portion. What I do know is that we get along good with Capricorns.
2006-10-09 12:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same sign and my boyfriend is a Gemini and I read all the negative things too but we get along better then I have with anyone before he is a perfect fit for me
2006-10-09 12:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by confused7873 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont know but most gemini's Ive met have a two sidedness to them. They say one thing but mean another. Obvioulsy if your going to marry him , he must be worth it!
2006-10-09 12:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♠GrInD♠ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it d0esnt matter if y0ur a CANCER and he's a GEMiNi.. different pe0ple with tha same signs d0nt mean that they'll end up tha same like other pe0ple with tha same signs because EVERY PERS0N iS DiFFERENT..
GiVE iT a Sh0t.. g0od luck t0 y0u and y0ur fiance =]
2006-10-09 19:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by ud0wne4this 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG everyone know that crap is fake thats for yall to decide if yall are perfect for eachother
2006-10-09 12:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally horoscopes are rubbish. its just dependent on the both of you. a simple and honest answer.
2006-10-09 12:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Daydreamer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay
2006-10-09 14:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by babykatdream099 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋