Like if you don't love your mother and father, is that wrong, or does it indicate something is wrong with you?
2006-10-09 12:14:16 · 9 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Wrong, No, But there might be another problem. Love and trust are earned, Nothing is automatic
2006-10-09 12:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course something is wrong if you don't love your family. And it does indicate that something is wrong with you, although the preson might be a real pain in the butt. If you do some really deep soul searching you would see that maybe you are the one with the problem even if they have a problem too. Yes they might do something to REALLY disgust you, but that doesn't give you the right to dislike them or if I should say hate them in any way, because at the end of it all, they are still your family or your parents as the case might be, and there is still some kind of relation where genes is concerned, and there is NOTHING when I say nothing, I mean NOTHING you can do about that. Just put aside your differences and try to ignore theirs, and then you'll see that your dislikes for them will slowly but surely disappear. They too will see a change in you and your attitude towards them and might check themselve's too... I've suffered with this problem against my father, and I'm still coping with it. But I can tell you that I'm using this method and it's working.
2006-10-09 12:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Each of you is a different individual, sure they are your parents, and bottom line you should love your parents, it is an easier feeling to digest and less problems(Illness) to have to deal with, and in the long run, the only person you end up hurting is your-self. No there is nothing wrong with you, time has a way of healing. You should never be down on your-self, look at the good in you and build on that, it is much healthier. Like in my family, I hated my parents for 30+ years, where did it go, but alot of lost memories. See them as people, some you like and others' you have nothing to talk about with, there is nothing wrong with you and or your feelings' unless they bring up destructive thoughts and or actions....YOU ARE ALRIGHT!!!
2006-10-09 13:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jamaison D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children and adults go through stages where they think that this is happening, especially towards their parents. I went through this as a small child, a teen, and then as an adult.
What it comes from a lot of the time is we put unrealistic expectations on our parents that they cannot possibly fulfill, or we believe they are treating us badly.
It passes when you think that your parents or you can be killed by simply walking out the door one day. It teaches you to live life with no regrets.
2006-10-10 10:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. Do you feel that your parents like YOU? If you don't feel supported, loved and understood then it would be perfectly normal to not feel particularily warm towards your family.
2006-10-09 13:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know.I mean I love my family,but I will also admit there are a few that I don't particularly like,but i still do love them
2006-10-09 20:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to love anybody...perhaps you love everybody in a way and you don't know it(there isn't any reason to know it anyway).usually parents behave like the childs worst enemy.when you learn to love blind your enemies you will become the passive and pathetic human being everybody wants you to be...
2006-10-09 12:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes some people have know one be grateful life is to short not to love.
2006-10-09 16:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know maybe you feel something bad in your heart
2006-10-09 12:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Makachi A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋