what's with me?

Question

I was in a fight lat year with a total "b" and in gym we had to play hockey, she started yelling "you suck" at me and now, I can't even say the word hockey or look at something related to hockey. I can't stand it what's wrong with me and how do I stop this

Answer 1

It sounds like you were intimidated by her and felt insecure because of what she said. Not all of us are good at everything we do. You have to realize that she is not a good team player.

If you do not try again, you will not get over that fear. You don't have to like hockey again, but I hope it isn't just because of the situation of someone who has no manners or team spirit. If she thinks she was better than you, instead of staying you stunk, the team spirited thing would have been to try to teach you some tricks.

You could take lessons if you really wanted to or go to a real hockey game. Don't let someone like her take something away from you. I am not necessarily talking about your love of hockey. I am talking about your inner self. Pray for her lack of manners. If she does something like that again, confront her about it. Feel free to tell her what I have said. No one is perfect, and it is just a game. It is suppose to be for fun.

Answer 2

You are doing what many young people do, and that is give away your power to another. It is quite difficult to just let the rage of another not impact ones life. You must decide from within yourself, whether hockey is important enough to you to confront this other person in some way? If not, let it pass. If so, then search around for an Ally who is quite tough, and someone the other person would not like on her case. You will have to reach within yourself, and grab hold of the power you allow to escape, and use it for your self.

It never hurts to have another friend, so go about getting one or two. Why not befriend someone who will protect you, and support you? Life is much like war, and its ones power and the threat to use it that keeps others from going to war with us.

If necessary, take a course in self-defense, or martial arts. What ever it takes to awaken the power within yourself so that you no longer fear it, but can use it as you please.

Peace

Answer 3

It's really sad that people can make you feel so crap about yourself...Don't let her win take control back , go to a hockey game even if you go by yourself and just jump in and deal with it, otherwise you could be thinking about the cow and what she said for the rest of your life...I gave up veterinary nursing because I went through the same thing and I still regret it.....good luck

Answer 4

I understand, she really is not that mature, and she really is a total "b" go to a real hockey game and forget about her, she can't tie you down like that, that was stupid and I bet she sucked herself and wanted to feel better by putting others down, don't pay attention to her, you don't want people like that in your life anyway. She's a "b" and don't you forget it!

Answer 5

kick the snookers out of them.. no just joking.. go see a counselor ... it sounds like you have gotten intimidated :(