I love both my parent s but they just seem to hate each other and I feel as if it were my fault.
2006-10-09 11:52:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if they dont get along, that is their issue, but remember, god isnt going to issue new parents if you get divorced from the ones you have now
2006-10-09 11:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by dwayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry and you love someone do you divorce them? No you work at it and remove yrself from a bad situation if it arises.You dont say how old you are or if you are living there or even if they live together so im going to assume your are in fact a younger person living at home with both parents. And the advice i would give you is to go to a counsellor who can support you through this who can sit with your parents and you to talk about how you feel because you are important! Sometimes parents get so wound up in their own bull the kids are kind of left to their own. Its not your fault an possibly not theirs but it does need to be resolved for all parties not just you. I am a divorced parent i couldnt resolve mine an my partners issues and at the end of the day kids like 2 ok homes better than one broken one. Dont get me wrong its not an easy road but my kids are ok an thats the main thing....I hope your situation can be resolved and that you can go back to being a kid. Best of Luck you have an aussie mum thinking about you.
2006-10-09 12:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's almost completely impossible to get a divorce from your parents. It has happened, but you need to prove they aren't providing you with an adequate home life. After that, the state will take custody of you and put you in a foster home, which you have no say in the matter. If you have other relatives who are willing to accept custody of you, then the state will probably assign them custody if they possess a stable home. But who's going to pay for all the legal fees?
Whether or not it's your fault doesn't effect the legal process. If your parents hate each other, there's not a whole lot you can do. And the more youtry to get involved, the more tension you build between them. They are not going to like finding out about your feelings and will probably blame each other for it. All you can do is focus on school and get through it, do NOT try to interere, it would only make things much worse.
2006-10-09 12:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by jbrowning001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not your fault! Its theirs the made all there choices in life.
For starters they chose to be with each other... and just because they ended up falling out of love doesnt mean they have falln out of love with you.
You can amansipate yourself. Which means you really are divorcing your parents. But you have to be 16 and you must have somewhere to go and you can never come back home again. You have to live on your own forever. And get a job. For more info just look it up online! Its a letter you have to write.
Goodluck! Hope I could help!
2006-10-09 12:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your parents situation. Divorce is hard for everyone involved - especially the kids. first of all its not your fault,it hurts but u will learn 2 deal with it. You are taking a lot of responsibility onto your own shoulders, so with that being said. I suggest finding a trusted adult you can talk to such as a teacher or somoene at a church. You should also talk to your parents. I know it is hard and your parents have plenty of problems right now - but they should know how you feel.
2006-10-09 12:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not alone being with parents that hate each other but guess what its not your fault you are a good person and your parents are mad at each other not at you so sit down with them and tell them that their fighting upsets you and they need to either resolve or be considerate when you are arouind and most of all remember its not your fault your not in charge of your parents actions
2006-10-09 11:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully your parents are there to support YOU because that is the most important thing that they should be thinking about but have you ever told them how you feel about the situation? sometimes people get so caught up in thier own emotions that they forget the MOST IMPORTANT part of thier life. don't let them think it is your fault, I hope that you will find a good friend that will help you get through it. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-09 11:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Stuffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnot your fault that they don't like each other. My advice talk to an adult maybe a grandparent or aunt or uncle see if you can live with them for a while and see how things go.
The next step is to contact a lawyer.
2006-10-09 11:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by samanny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever mom and dad fight about has nothing to do with you
no matter how much they fight they love you with all their hearts.
but you should'nt feel that way about wanting a divorce from your parents, because they still are your parents no matter what.
i lost both my parents when i was only 8 years old,i had to live with strangers who raised me.trust me it is not the same without mom and dad, treasure them with all your heart.
things will work out
take care and hold your head up.
2006-10-09 12:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by smiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ur fault things like that happen all the time. im sorry that u feel that way. things will get better. plz dont divorce them they do love you and that would hurt them. hope all goes well for you.
2006-10-09 11:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋