Ok, I went overseas just a month ago. While I was planning on leaving my fiancee needed a new place to live in, but didnt want to do it alone, so I agreed that her ex girlfriend could move in with her. They are now best friends, the only thing is now the ex is hitting on my fiancee and I dont know what to do? My future wife told me she would talk to her friend about it, but then her friend is the only one there to get her through this time while Im gone, and she is helping her with everything, like laundry and everything else. So now she said she cant say anything and wants to wait for the right time, but Im worried that with everything going on and her ex being the only one there for her that it might cause a problem. Am I being too much of a worry wort, or what should I do, cause I cant get home and am scared cause found out just a couple of weeks ago that my fiancee is having my baby.. What do I do??
2006-10-09 11:51:19 · 4 answers · asked by David C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hope that she can put her out asap. If your fiance' is being hit on by the so-called friend, she may try and force her way with her. I'm almost sure that your fiance' can find a relative or one of your relatives or someone else to move in or help her. CHECK to see if there is a cousin or someone other than this chick. Can you marry her and bring her to the base you're at?
2006-10-09 12:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, and have a talk, that is the best thing you can do, at this point, it may not be what you think, but I would let her know that I am concerned, and that you hope that she does not jeopardize our future! That it would be good for the baby to have the two of you bring it up! You need to find out where she is coming from. and only she can answer that!
2006-10-09 12:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are messing around behind your back. That is a big mistake from your part. But if you trust her then it shouldn't matter what n e one else thinks.
2006-10-09 12:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a woman I can tell you that we can have a relationship with another woman and it won't affect you and her. I have a girl friend and a boy friend and I love them both its just differant.
2006-10-09 12:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by carrie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋