What should I do??

Question

FIRST OF ALL : if you're gonna say something mean don't say it at all..
Ok.. I have a bf, we've been together for a year, and in FEB. his really good friend started talking to me and he liked me, we were really close.. I mean like SUPER CLOSE! and he started giving me advice to break up w/ my bf and hook u p with him, ok lets call my bf's exfriend BOB, so anyways they almost fight last time they saw each other, and they totally hate each other, he got kicked out of that school because a teacher heard him say something very inappropriate to me and he got kicked out, plus he had recently gotten in a lot of fights, ok so now he has a gf at my school, and he went up to my bf and told him that I better stop "dogging his girl", I don't know who she is, I've seen her around, but I don’t at all look at her nasty... so what should I do?! I wouldn't want anyone getting in a fight, not my bf or myself, so how should I handle it?

Oh yea and Bob's g/f is my ex bestfriend's friend... so do you think that has anything to do?

Violet Pearl, no I wouldn't consider that mean...By mean I meant like, you're a drama queen or things like that!.. so yea

Answer 1

Sorry, I'm sure if I said something like dump him and focus on your studies instead of this useless, brainless drama, you'd call me mean, so I won't say anything.

Answer 2

It sounds like you've done nothing. If that's right: continue doing nothing. (Choosing NOT to take action, is a valid decision, and a valid course of action.) Your question gets confusing about who is your bf's best friend that's hitting on you (one issue) -- and the other guy (?) who hates your bf, goes to a different school, has a gf at your school who is a friend of a friend, who apparently thinks you're "dogging" her.

On the first matter - from what I hear, stick with your bf.
On the second - like I said, don't do anything. Just continue being yourself. If you might be giving dirty looks without being awareof it... try to mask those.

Answer 3

Wow, this sounds very very complicated!!!!

If you like your boyfriend and hate BOB then just keep ignoring him. Don't let your boyfriend react just say that BOB is trying to get under his skin and break ya'll up, tell him to stick with you and if both of you ignore him then I think he'll stop. Just definetely don't pick fights with these people, they'll probably take it way out of control over nothing.
Good luck!

Answer 4

all you can really do is just hope that BOB & his girl gets over what ever it is that has them so upset with you & your bf. Yes her being your exfriends friend could have something to do with her being so rude.

Answer 5

First of all you cant help what your heart feels. Why not call your ex apologize for the way things worked out & tell him you wish him every happiness with his new girlfriend & that you don't want trouble. After hearing you apologize he might feel the same way.

Answer 6

you know you should of broke up with BOB before you and his friend got reallly close.

but anyway they seem to have a grudge. they need to let go.if they keep this up or they'll mis life. you could stay far away from them.

Answer 7

Ignore them. Act like you don't care. The problem will be resolved on its own.

Answer 8

I would talk to any of themselves too much drama is hazerdous to u your health or mental health

Answer 9

just ignore them it will blow over eventually and life will get back to normal. tell you boyfriend that it is not worth it and to move on.