my friend, who is 14, told me he thinks he got his gf pregnant. her period is 4 or 5 days late now! should i tell someone or wait and see if she's really pregnant? :( ):
2006-10-09 11:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by Secret 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If your friend told you it's cause he trusted you. If you were pregnant and you told your friend would you like it if he told your business? I think not! So be a friend and respect the fact that he told you in the first place. I'm sure if they wanted anyone to know they would of told then their self. Beside They don't know if she's even pregnant so my advice don't say anything.
2006-10-09 11:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not your news to tell, plenty of time to wait & find out.
4 or 5 days does not neccessarily mean pregancy. Be supportive but wait until real help is needed.
2006-10-09 18:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get into the middle of that one....for a million dollars!! Keep your mouth closed....it may be that your friend is just trying to look like a big shot...guys at that age thinks it's cool just to get the word out that they are getting lucky...whether they are or not. Besides....why ruin the girls reputation...especially if it isn't true? You would be stirring up more trouble for everyone that you won't be able to deal with the after math. I would stay out of it!!!
2006-10-09 18:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by tater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait,but don't wait long. If she is GO TO YOUR GUIDANCE COUNSELOR!! This is about the BABY, not your friends. Lots of problems can happen by not recieving prenatal care! The earlier she tells someone the longer she has to look at options like adoption. Good luck, I know this must be hard for you.
2006-10-09 18:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not your problem. If your friend got his girlfriend pregnant, then they will have to figure out how, when and where to talk to thier parents. I do not believe this is your business at this point.
2006-10-09 18:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she just start? because if she did it could be her body. and not to be rude, but she shouldn't have done that anyway. but if i were you id wait to see if she actually is before you say anything. give her the support she needs right now. have her go to the doctors and see if its true. it could just be a false alarm. good luck with that situation.
2006-10-09 18:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to tell anyone anything anyway? At that age, periods are not always regular anyway....tell her to give it a few more days. Hope she's not. Good luck!
2006-10-09 18:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by ?? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait to tell anyone but if you find out its true do tell b/c she will need to see her doctor right away. just try and be there for her if she is. she will need someone to help her deal with it.
2006-10-09 18:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by jennine75044 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is their buisness. Leave it to them to tell people. It isn't really up to you too tell anybodys buisness, she may not want people to know right now. I know I diden't want anybody to know until i knew what i was doing, adoption, or to parent her. And everything turned out okay for me and my boyfriend. im 16 and pregnant
2006-10-09 18:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait and see if she is really pregnant
2006-10-09 18:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by dark 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋