Most people like to wait until they're out of their first trimester because that's considered the "danger" zone. Give him some time and let him do it in his own time but tell him that you're getting antsy and you want him to do something about it. Good luck and congrats to you!
2006-10-09 11:39:06
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answered by justwondering 5
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He Will probably wait till the last minute so be prepared, the sooner the better, who's the biggest gossiper in his family not a good idea i would rather hear it from the horses mouth. Have u told your parents?
2006-10-09 11:34:53
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answered by wisewomaninthewest 2
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Me and my boyfriend diden't tell anyone i was pregnant till i was 4 1/2 months.. But we got it out. Be sure to tell him it will be okay, Im a teen and my dad has sent my boyfriend too jail 3 times and said if we ever got pregnant he would send him to jail.. Im16 and he is 18.. But everything is turning out okay. His parents are veryyy suportive and he thought he would be kicked out. But nope! haha hope i helped
2006-10-09 11:33:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Call them yourself.. They are the grandparents have a right to know and/or be apart of the child's life. Maybe the parents around will help straighten out your boyfriend.
2006-10-09 11:30:57
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answered by Anonymous
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If the baby truly is his (NO chance of it being someone elses) - give him a date as to when he must chose to tell them. If he chooses not to, then you tell them the next day. period. don't let him talk you out of it. you say what you mean and you mean what you say.
The grandparents on BOTH sides have every right to be a part of their grandchild's life. And, if the father of this baby is not going to be active in his child's life - his parents have the right to exercise visitation. It's called Grandparent's Rights and the law takes them very seriously now.
2006-10-09 11:30:57
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answered by annie 3
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If you throw yourself down a flight of stairs you create a win win situation, you wont have to tell his parents and you wont have a baby.
You could even amp it up a bit by making him get all nervous when your'e at his house say that you're gonna go downstairs and tell them and then fall down his stairs.
Trust me, you'll laugh about it later
2006-10-09 11:39:49
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answered by dpconnolly73 1
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I think that is something for your boyfriend to worry about and not you. You have enough stress in your life and the baby doesn't need anymore. Let him deal with this in his own time. If he doesn't tell them by the time you have the baby then I guess you can go over and surprise them. But beware they may want a paternity test.
2006-10-09 11:31:14
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answered by Anonymous
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I'd wait another 2 months to tell anyone. There is a high risk of miscarriage in the first trimester. It seems as if you'd be better suited to wait on telling anyone, much less worry that your boyfriend hasn't told his parents.
After the 1st trimester, I'd ask him to tell them, then if he doesn't I'd consider telling them yourself.
2006-10-09 11:31:24
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answered by lusht 1
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You explain to him that you are kind of on the clock here. Give him a specific date (example: Oct. 31). If he does not tell his parents by that date, then you make it clear to him that you will tell them the next day...and be prepared to do it. Good luck.
2006-10-09 11:30:54
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answered by Mom of 3 3
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Tell him that there gonna find out when you get fat and that its better that they find out from him or trick him go to his parents house with him and say " Me and you son have something to say right "insert boyfriends name here" "
2006-10-09 12:08:25
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answered by Anonymous
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