im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant. i still finishing my senior year and i have collage set up. i just want to know what you guys (meaning you girls) think.im still with the daddy.
2006-10-09 11:26:04 · 19 answers · asked by Natasha C 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
ok didnt ask for negitive comments so keep your rude comments to your self.thanx. your not perfect eather.
im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant. i still finishing my senior year and i have collage set up. i just want to know what you guys (meaning you girls) think.im still with the daddy.
2006-10-10 05:23:33 · update #1
I got pregnant at 17 and had my son my senior year at 18 and graduated high school with honors, just keep focused on the goals you had set before you got pregnant and follow through with them, you will just have to make some adjustments is all, it is not going to be easy, but if you get a good education then you can get a good job and you will be able to support your new family I had lots of support from my family, I hope you have the same support system behind you good luck and congrats
2006-10-09 17:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can a 17 yr old do with a baby??? I m 18 and im not pregnant, Whats the point??? wait until your ready. I work at babys r us, and Teens come in all the time, barely being able to afford for the baby...!! as to a mature person who waited ...will be able to support the baby ..as to where your mommy and daddy have to be the mom and dad for your baby, becuase they gonna be buying all the ****. Not you. It is expensive to have a baby. This including the Medical Bills also. Then if you wanna go to school, girl you gotta think about CHILDCare. and everything else. I dont know how in the hell i would make it thru college with a KID> i just started 3 months ago and its kickin my butt with out having a kid. Most studnets end up droppin out having to find a full time job to support the baby.and the daddys run off. maybe hes with you now but wait until that baby comes. Guys are scared, of marriage and preg. And how old is he?now he is gonna have to start working full time JUST to suport that baby. NOT U OR HIM. But a Baby. I think its dumb to have a baby right now. I havent heard you mentio MARRIAGE> WHAT ABOUT marriage. i thought that was suppose to come first. ....!!! And last but not least...what about when you want to have another...do you want your baby to have hand me downs. Me I personal want each child to be equally, and they get brand new clothes, and such and such. I will be able to support the secound child with out any concerns.
2006-10-09 23:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by lhshotiy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was 17 years old when I got pregnant and I was 5 months pregnant when I graduated and I just had my daughter on the 3rd and when I looked at her everything that i wasnt going to be able to do was not a factor because looking in her eyes made me melt. I was going to college right after school too, now it'll just take a while longer.
2006-10-09 18:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school and further your education. It might take a bit longer to finish college tho. Glad you two are still together and hope you two stay that way. This child is going to need both parents in the picture. good luck!
2006-10-09 18:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well having a baby at any time in your life is hard. i would tell you to keep it and just try and see if any of your family can help you out with the baby so you can finish school. i have 2 kids and i wish i had finished school. it makes things so much better when you know you can proved for you kid to. good luck with it all and i hope its an easy one.
2006-10-09 18:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by jennine75044 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child at 18. He is now a year old and I have graduated high school and I am now attending college. It is ALL possible to do. Do not let the child overwhelm you, though. It will take a lot of hard work.
Good luck with everything!
2006-10-09 18:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my case is a little worse thsn yours. Im 16 and pregnant. Im still with the father too, we have been toghether for 2 years and we are going to move in toghter soon.. I think you can do it!! to talk then you can e-mail me at jill71691@yahoo.com
2006-10-09 18:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make no mistake, things will be harder for you but you will make it! Don't quit school. No matter how tired or howe much he loves you, stay in school. No one can take your education away from you and a man can leave you any time.
2006-10-09 18:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least your thinking about your future as well as your child,and staying with dad is wonderful make sure your together for the right reasons...keep it together,youve still got a long way to go....stay in school youll be glad you did...
2006-10-09 18:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by good advise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have supports from the father, you can do it! If not and you have support from family, you can still do it! Consider all parties concerned. i counsel teens daily. If you would like to, you may contact me personally. I am not licensed, but I am experienced.
2006-10-09 18:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Patty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋