he is starting to be one of my good friends. but im starting to very like him. i can't tell him, our friendship would be over if i do. i need help, please someone help me with this
2006-10-09 11:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go for it. you never know he might feel the same way.he might jus have that girlfriend cause he thinks that you dont like him and he doesnt want to ruin yalls friendship so why not go out with someone else.let your feelings out!
2006-10-09 11:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by misslikestotalk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The right thing to do is wait. If you make a name for youself as a "home recker" or "relationship wrecker" you open up a whole new door to conflicts that you probably don't want to endure. I was on the recieveing end of someone trying to steal my husband. I am not a violent person, and being a Christian is the only reason I am not in jail now! Do you really want people trying to hurt you in any way, feelings or physical. If I am generally mellow, then what would a high strug gal do? Just let life flow and if you really like the fellow, just keep yourself available if the time happens, but don't bank all your emotion on one fellow that you "may" not know all that well. There could be just as nice a guy around the corner that suits you much better and is trying to get the nerve to ask you. Take advice from someone who's been there and learn from others mistakes. Then you are truly wise.
2006-10-09 11:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You said he has a g/f so you should just leave it alone until he makes his move, first move being broken up with his current girl. And you are right, the friendship will be over because he won't think of you too much if you interfere with his relationship with her. Relax, spend time alone or seek someone who is single. Why ruin the friendship you already have with him?
2006-10-09 11:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Think about it this way. WHAT IF you were his girlfriend? Then there's this girl that really like him. And the girl wonders what to do whether to try to get him because she really likes him or just leave it? Get the point? Believe in karma girl... The guy has a gf already. So leave it like that. Get your own guy who doesn't have a gf.
2006-10-09 11:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to break up the relationship. Think of it this way: if you were the girlfriend, it would really hurt you that someone broke up your relationship. And don't forget about Karma! It'll come back to you to bite you in the ***.
Just continue to be his friend. If you and him are meant to be in the future, it will happen, if not, then it won't. Just let it happen.
2006-10-09 11:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends. If he becomes available then you can be there and open for him. If you feelings start getting in the way it would be best to pull away and give some space. Don't ruin something for him. Let him learn his own lessons.
2006-10-09 11:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is be his friend for now!! Trust me, him and his girl might not last. He will need u someday one way or another. Friends can always become lovers. It may take awhile, but its worth waiting for if u really care for that person.
2006-10-09 11:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Eric MD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. You don't want a guy who would mess with someone else when he has a girlfriend. Make some new friends.
2006-10-09 11:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
play the freind card for a hwile spend as much time with him as possible.. then i girlfriend will get sick of him hanging out wiht you all the time she dumps him and then you ge tthe guy in the end.. i've seen it before it works.
2006-10-09 11:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep him as a friend until he is available and then let him know how you feel.
2006-10-09 11:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋