i wanted to go to a sleepover last night but my mom said no so i went anyway and when i got home she told me that she was very mad at me and then told me to lean over the chair and i didn't know why but i did which i should have thought of it and why she wanted me to but i'm 16 so she shouldn't have done it anyway but l leaned over the chair and lifted my skirt and sorta screamed when she saw i wasn't wearing underwear and told me that i should wear underwear and then she started spanking my butt! she was touching my BARE butt! i'm just glad she didn't see my private! i think it was five hard slaps and then she told me i was grounded and to go to my room and she said she had better not find out that i'm not wearing underwear again!
what should i do?
2006-10-09 11:13:38 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no i need to know what i should do though?
i don't wear underwear because it's too confining she didn't spank me because i wasn't wearing underwear she wanted to because i went out even though she said no and she said she is sick of it she was jsut shoocked i giess when she lifted my skirt
i didn't add it but she said she might do it again if she thought it was effective... so what do i do to make sure she thinks it didn't work?
i started screaming and crying even though it didn't hurt, could that mean she knows it worked?
2006-10-09 11:21:44 · update #1
she did say no computer but i don't care
i'm talking to my friends right now trying to see what to do, i didn't tell them about the spanking though. i just told them i'm grounded so were trying to find away to get me out of the hosue next weekend for a party
i'm too old to listen to my mom i thought about calling the cops but it seemed too embarrassing and anyway i don't want her in trouble i jsut want her to realize that she can't tell me what to do and get away with it
2006-10-09 11:24:57 · update #2
what the crap was that?!?!?! seriously! lol. spank her back
2006-10-09 11:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 10⤋
You should mind your mother, young lady! You would have gotten much worse at out house. Wear your underwear when you have on a skirt or dress. So, your mom touched your bare butt. Do you think she has never seen it before? Or did you change your own diapers and give yourself a bath since birth? At 16 you should be showing some respect for your mom. Grow up!
2006-10-09 11:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is not my business if you wear underwear or not. But get real. She spanked you for sneaking out and now you are making more plans for sneaking out? Grow up. She's in charge until you turn 18 or move out. Maybe she should have let you go to the sleepover, I'd be mad if my mom didn't let me go to a sleepover but imagine what your mom felt like when she saw you were not home. She must have been worried sick. But I do agree you are too old for spankings.
2006-10-09 12:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Queen 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your to old to listen to your mom...first of all no your not and just to let you know she is the boss of you until you turn 18 or move out her house...so go ahead and call the cops if you want to because I use to think the same thing at that age and when the cops came out they took me for being an unruly teenager and they wont do anything to your mom they will tell you she had the right to punish you and they will do the same thing to you.Its alot easier to just grow up and listen...trust me.I'm 17 about to be 18 now.Thank god I grew up after that.
2006-10-09 12:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Aira 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are too old to listen to your mom?
you are 16.....im pushing 30 and I look to my parents sometimes to tell me what to do or help give advise.
dont go to the party, its only going to make things worse.
i know getting spanked sucks, my dad used to spank me.
and its almost an invasion of privacy in a way and degrading.
im sorry you are going through this cause it does hurt mentally and physically but jsut keep your distance.
and next time if your mom says no...dont go
and you should wear udnerwear...if its to confining at least wear shorts under a skirt.
2006-10-09 12:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by njank99 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should be thankful that your mom is taking your interests to bear. The pain will go away. Just remember that your mom loves you and wants to see you safe. Although, if you're going to be wearing a dress, you should put on some underwear (what if a breeze comes up?)
2006-10-10 21:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by t_raudenbush 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe your on the computer I would have taken that from u too. Sweetie I know your mom loves u she probably doesn't know how to handle your rebellious behavior have u stopped to think what could of happen to u on the way to your friends you could have been on unsolved mysteries some girls disappear with no trace that 's what she's trying to keep u from not from having fun like u think be responsible give your mom all the details next time which adults are gonna be there. all the info helps. PLEASE WEAR PANTIES
2006-10-09 11:21:31 · answer #7 · answered by wisewomaninthewest 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The way you keep talking about being spanked and not wearing panties, you sound like one of those sicko freaks whos acting like a girl just to try to get people to listen to you.
Get a life Dude.
2006-10-09 15:47:52 · answer #8 · answered by Maienca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ur lucky az hell , if i did all of that either id b kicked out or id be beat really bad - and sry , but you brought that on yourself , your parents have the right to spank you or yell at you or whatever as long as you r still thier child (as long as its 4 a reason) and plus thats just nasty - wear some draws - thats an easy wasy 2 get raped too , think about these things b4 u decide 2 do stuff like that
,sry no pity here
2006-10-09 12:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by kiss_of_a_dreamer 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to obey your mom. If she said not to go then you shouldn't have. Learn from this and start wearing underwear and longer skirts or dresses.
2006-10-11 15:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen, do what feels comfortable for you, ur 16 and ur old enough to know what u like or dont like to do. ur mom shouldnt even be dictating to u about wearing underwears, thats just stupid. in my school there are dozens of girls who dont wear underwear for the same reason that it confines them, it doesnt make em h o e s or w h o r e s, its their choice, even i dont wear boxers sometimes, so just do what you feel like, and let ur mom know whats up.
2006-10-09 16:01:00 · answer #11 · answered by balanced112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋