how can I make myself less stressed about my girlfriends period being late? She is 5 days late...and VERY stressed out. We used condoms every time.
We are getting a test done this wednesday...anything I can do to chill? (we are both only 18)
2006-10-09 10:58:28 · 21 answers · asked by Laura Y. 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I know this is hard but, try not to think about it until the test, I mean dont nt worry about it but, try not to keep it in your mind do something else whatever your favorite recreational activity is go do it
2006-10-09 11:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by DEREK A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is easier said than done but a little practice may help. First you have to realize that if you cannot change the outcome of a situation, stressing over it only makes you sick as well.
When you feel the need to stress, over any situation, start putting together a plan or scenario to try and prepare yourself for the possible outcomes instead. You need a calm mind for this task. This way you will put yourself in the best position to act positively and move forward,
once the scenario has totally revealed it self.
For instance, if she is pregnant, what then?
And if not, what to do to safeguard against the possibilities of it actually happening.
2006-10-09 18:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no point in worring until you know for sure, and then you can worry. Why waste stress on 'what ifs' Deal with it when it comes, and just think that she is not. Go get a movie, or go do something, get out with your friends. Being in the pregnancy section of yahoo answers isn't going to take your mind off things. You can stress out on wendsday if it comes back positive, so for now, just try to shrug it off, and continue like nothings happining, I know its hard, but there is nothing you can do. Who knows, maybe once you guys chill out, it will come. Oh, and you could try havind sex, that sometimes will bring on the period, just double wrap it! lol
2006-10-09 18:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I am sure you know condoms are not 100% safe, but if you used them right from start before you went in her , she should be fine. because she is 5 days late that does not nessesarly mean she is pregnant. I was once late 2 weeks and it turned out I was not pregnant ...I was late because I was stressing out TOOOOO much about it! My body shut down. Stress can dely her period!!!! Tell her to relax and everything will work out
My advice to her and you...Don't stress out everything will work out no matter what happens...Hang in there :)
I hope that helped
2006-10-09 18:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by theresa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient a lot of times girls can make there cycle change by being stressed out or by there diet changes. The only thing you can do is wait on the test. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-09 18:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by kikibear1223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait it out. She may be late due to stress or diet change or any number of things. Just wait and see what the test shows.
2006-10-09 18:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by nana4dakids 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out and hope for the best,youknow condoms aren't a 100% but I'm sure you dont really care about that at this moment,If it (the test comes back positive)take it like a man,cause your acting like one doing this in the first place,be responsible for your actions no matter what,and look at the posibility of letting someone adopt it if its positive(you need to start dealing with it,planning etc just in case...I know this isnt what you want to hear but its the right thing to do...so go do the right thing
2006-10-09 18:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister who is a nurse said you cannot get a false negative at 5 days past due. Get an EARLY pregnancy test since they are very sensitive. The answer you get will be right. These are very accurate.
2006-10-09 18:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not able to deal with the consequences then don't do the cause if your not ready to have a baby then don't have sex there are other things you can do besides sex and why do you have to wait til wednesday just go to the store and pick up an e.p.t you will have your results
2006-10-09 18:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by simplehoneylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. And consider carefully what you will do next. If she is pregnant, that's a tiny little life that she carries that you made together. It will change your lives forever. If she is not, consider carefully whether you are mature enough to continue a sexual relationship with her. You seem to not handle the possible consequences for it very well.
2006-10-09 18:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋