I really like my female teacher... REALLY like her.. I always find myself sucking up to her and showing off, I want to always spend time with her... my friends and I joke around and say im flirting with her... and that would probably be fine, if it wasn't for the fact that I'm also a girl!!! what am i supposed to do? she's my P.E teacher and she's a lot nicer to me than anyone else. I guess what im asking is, do you think she'll ever "LIKE" me back, am i just insane? should i continue with what im doing... the sick thing is im always fantasysing about her... HELP ME!!!
2006-10-09 10:51:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
I think that there is no chance that she will ever "like" you back. Teachers aren't allowed to date students. I think that you need to sit down and do some SERIOUS soul searching. Could be that you are coming into your homosexual feelings and you really don't know how to understand them.
2006-10-09 10:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all fall in love with at least one person we shouldn't. I seriously would not actually act upon this as it can't end well for you. If you like her that is just the way things are - it does not make you a lesbian, and even if you decide you are a lesbian then this is not a bad thing either (my sister is a lesbian and is far more normal than I am!).
You are not sick to fantasise about her - if you find her attractive then this is 100% normal.
You will eventually get over her and find someone else who you can be happy with. It may not seem this way (it took me 5 years to get over someone once) but it will happen.
Just keep these feelings to yourself and be happy with who you are. Your feelings are not bad or wrong and you are a great person. Loving somebody is never totally a bad thing but sometimes you just have to accept defeat before the fight even starts (so to speak).
And if you grow up and leave school and still feel this way the perhaps this is meant to be - that would be the time to act on these feelings.
I hope you have a fantastic life.
2006-10-09 18:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure.
you should seducer her, and then she'll be famous just like Debra Lafave.
If you want to be responsible you've just got to ignore the feelings otherwise you will hurt yourself and possibly ruin her life (if she likes you that way back) just for a little slap and tickle.
2006-10-09 17:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by RED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a crush. It's natural, and it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay. It'll pass in time, in the meantime just ride it out and don't even think that anything could happen!
2006-10-09 18:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's just a crush, it'll pass. But nothing will ever come of it. Try move on from it.
Good luck
2006-10-12 13:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by ruthiebeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered writing stories for the Sunday Sport?
2006-10-09 18:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ur young, its a crush, it will pass, trust me, been there done that got the (ahem) P.E t-shirt!!
2006-10-09 18:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by p_y_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you lesbian? if you're not maybe you're just fond of her, maybe you dont have a big sister and that you're just looking for a sister figure...
2006-10-09 18:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by -j4n3- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your officially crazy !!
2006-10-09 17:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your teacher get over it
2006-10-09 19:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋