Hi all, this weekend i saw for the first time in years my first kiss, there was a lot of unfinished business with him and i have discovered feelings i never thought i would have again, is this just the norm becasue i think i like him because i used to. I cant stop thinking about him....he is absolutely gorgeous but always was and now he drives a sports car. Id it normal to feel this way
2006-10-09 10:51:27 · 21 answers · asked by charlotte66621442000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he was also flirting with me outrageously, do you think i should finish the unfinished business and get over it, (basically i never slept with him as we were only young) but now i am more mature, what do you think, should i get to know him now, the sports car is nice but not as nice as him
2006-10-09 10:55:33 · update #1
I dont see how it would be deemed as normal OR as not normal. These are just your feelings.
If you want him... go get him, don't care about what is or isn't normal!
Good luck!
2006-10-09 10:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Charlotte...It's good to feel young again and feel those tingles in your body as if you were sweet 16 again. If your mind is full of this man is it for the right feelings slide in gently, But just because he drives a sports car don't make him James Bond. But as the saying goes, if you miss a chance your never get it back. Take the chance but be careful there might be things about him now you never knew, slow and easy, brings out the best. Good Luck WB
2006-10-09 18:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by David Wilson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your feelings could be because he was your first kiss, your feelings could be true. The only way that you can find out is to pursue them further. Test the waters so to speak and see if there is anything there. Sounds like he still likes you too. Try it out and see what happens.
2006-10-12 10:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by countrygirl66032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if he is married or engaged to someone, well, then leave well alone, you will just get hurt.
I know what you mean with first love, i often think of my first love and remember him fondly even though the bast..d messed me around. Remember he may not be the same person you knew then so take care. Sportscar mmmmm sounds like a player to me.
2006-10-09 17:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by Duisend-poot 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have the symptoms of young lust. Dont sleep with someone unless you really mean it or you will be classed as a slapper. You sound too young and immature to hold down a serious relationship so learn the dating rules without going the whole hog. You will appreciate this in a few years time !!
2006-10-09 18:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you are smitten. Nothing wrong with that. But just remember, he is just a human being with a lot of faults. No good relationship begins with worship.
2006-10-09 17:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, if u want him, take him. Only you know your feelings and what u want. What is 'normal'. In my book anything goes between consenting adults. btw....u mention the sports car twice, r u sure it aint the car u r keen on?.....go for both girl......;)
2006-10-09 18:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by english_rose10 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The proof is in the pudding. If you sleep with him and you still want him and vice versa then it's meant to be. If you sleep with him and he drives off in to the sunset in his sports car then he just wanted to get in to your knickers.
2006-10-09 18:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honestly, i think its because your horny. this will help you. go have a masturbate and after you have an orgasm you should start to feel empty. this is the perfect time to ask yourself "do i still like him"? trust me, it always works. umm, i have a friend who told me, yeah, that's right, a friend. bye.
2006-10-09 17:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes your first love is like an old pair of shoes- very comfortable but after a while you realise why you stoppped wearing them!!!
2006-10-09 18:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋