Would you be okay with your husband going out to dinner with a person of the opposite sex; with out you, and in another state,because the job your partner has is a truck driver. Then later told you about it, and said that he gave her his number so he could hook her up with one of his friends. yet she keeps calling your partner, and your partner calls her often. And she is also calling the friend that your husband is hooking her up with. so not only is she talking to your husband but she is also talking to his friend as well. He says that he is only on a friend basis with her...Is it okay for him to be friends with her, have dinner with her and for them to call eachother? And I dont even know her. and probley never will know her because she lives in another state and she also drives truck. I told him that Iam not comfortable with him having dinner with other woman that I dont know and he got mad and said that Idont let him have any friends, but i do just not female ones i dont know
2006-10-09 10:51:07 · 14 answers · asked by peachy101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Haven't you ever heard stories about truck drivers who have more than one family?
This is completely in appropriate. He should get his food to go and get on the road as quick as he can to get back to you.
If she is calling from a landline. Just block her numbers on your phone. If it is a cellphone you won't be able to do that.
It doesn't matter whether or not he agrees with you . YOUR his wife and he should be trying hard not to offend YOU not the other woman.
2006-10-09 14:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he is out on the road meeting his new girlfriend, you should be going out and meet some new boyfriends. It sounds like him and his friend are hooking up with her. So now it's your turn to hook up with a new man. If he gives you **** about, just tell him you trying to hook up one of your girlfriends. He will either get the message or leave. either way you will be better off. Good luck.
2006-10-09 17:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad too, he should have considered your feelings and took you along too. How would he like it if you did that to him, and why is she calling a married man? She should be calling the other guy. If I were you I would keep my eyes wide open. All he is doing is hooking himself up with her and his friend is probably the middle man. She probably gets in touch with him so he can get in touch with your husband. Be careful.....
2006-10-09 18:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns. Go with your feelings. Guys that say "I just get along with women. I can have women friends" are trying to pull the wool over the eyes.
2006-10-09 17:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are ok to be upset with him. I would back off a little and give him breathing room but watch him when he has one of these dates. Keep your eye on him.
2006-10-09 18:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt go for that for a second. If he wants dinners with her then he can carry you with him. Looks like to me it may have not been for his friend
2006-10-09 17:58:00 · answer #6 · answered by Devils_Advocate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wayyyyy to much callin going on for my liking
2006-10-09 17:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't buy the "friends" story for a second.
2006-10-09 18:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not hardly....friends don't have to be female , he could have all the friends he wanted , long as they have a penis! girl , don't even go for this! it is all bull_sh-it!
2006-10-09 17:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let him see her it might lead to other things even if he wasnt intentional on it
2006-10-09 18:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋