im in love with this girl but im invisible to her how do i talk to her?

Answer 1

get ur friend to tak to her

Answer 2

Well its all about making opportunities between you and that person, i know this is easier said than done...

If you know a mutual friend maybe you can join the friend, and get to know the person better that way.

Before you go reading any more advice, i hate to be harsh... but i doubt you will be in love with her. This is debatable as everyones view of love is different, but to be in love with someone you have to at least know them to a degree, and if your invisible to her and havent talked to her, you dont know much about her. You may argue at this point you know lots about her, you may have spoken to her friends, or even checked up on her in other ways. This just makes you a lesser stalker to some degree, you dont actually know about HER directly, and thats the KEY thing here. Regardless of what other people tell you, she may act differently around different people, so you can never know for sure until you talk to her yourself.

Ok after putting that out there, dont take that as a personal attack or anything, im just trying to get you to see the bigger picture. Now think about whats said above, then lets continue.

As you said in your question "How do i talk to her?"

Well talking to someone is pretty easy, you walk up to them and say something... "Hello". So do you think you can acctually do that if the time came?

If not then you need to think about why you cant say hello to her, if its a confidence issue, which it would probably be in most cases. You would need to overcome that, im not saying that you have to be Mr Confidence but at least be able to have a conversation without worrying if she doesnt like you for X reason.

If however you think you can say hello or something to her if the time came, then you need to think about how you want to say hello to her. Do you want to bump into her one day by *accident* and say hello and see where it goes, or do you want to acctually say hello and follow it up with some other conversation, in a cafe or whatever. Once you work this out try and make an opportunity as i said earlier, think it through and see what you can come up with.

Unfortunatly i doubt you will find a SOLID answer to your question as most people here dont know you or her, and this sort of advice is different for each case. So i think you need to think over some of the topics here, then work out what you want to do...

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Take small steps. Start with simple conversation "Hey how was your day? Anything crazy going on this weekend" ect ect and just build up the relationship from there. The key to any relationship is first to have a good friendship..and if all she wants is to be friends then accept it and move on. Alot of ppl just sit there and don't try..if you don't try you don't know what will happen. Good luck Romeo = )