I feel so stupid. I posted like 5 questions about this guy I REALLY like and... He doesn't like me back. I mean, how was I stupid enough to think he could like me? I mean, I almost asked him out. And, I told all my friends about him. I really like him. I'm crying. He was like perfect! I wonder, if I was prettier, or skinnyer, would he like me? I'm starting to think I'm pretty, but I want to lose weight. I was down to 104(I'm 13 and 5'3) but I'm 120 now! http://www.myspace.com/thekatesteinberg -look at all the pictures. Why doesn't he like me? I mean, how will I get over him? I just met him this year, but I'm so in love with him. I KNOW it! I just hate it. I'm 13, I shouldn't like guys. I wanna just concentrate on school, or get a boyfriend, or something! I hate it.
2006-10-09 10:18:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You will get to know more boys in your lifetime. He is not the last one born or the only one. You should be concentrating on your life, getting prepared to one day have a good life. But nature is nature.
The way you forget about one thing is to become more involved in something more positive. How about volunteering to visit burned children or someone that needs some of all that love you have?
DStarr
2006-10-09 10:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first...just b/c he doesn't like you means nothing...its not the end of the world..you are only 13 and shouldn't have your life revolve around a guy! i can't view your myspace...but if a guy makes you feel ugly..he's not worth it!
second....you are just bones!! i am 5'4 and the lightest i ever weighed was about 130...i am now up to 160...and get more compliments on the way i look than i did when i was skinny! I have more curves and b/c i look more REAL than skin and bones guys like that....stop obsessing about your weight! you don't have to be a runway model!!
third...you are 13...girls or guys your age don't really know what REAL love is...its the 'idea' of love that you feel....you WILL get over him!
fourth...you answered your own question...."I wanna just concentrate on school".....problem solved!
2006-10-09 17:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm incredibly shallow (bad, but true)so if i think anyone, a guy or girl is ugly i'll tell them the truth
you are very pretty but you are also only thirteen and any guy at your age, even at my age or older seems like he is perfect and the one... but the only way to know if he is the one is too date and if you don't get the chance to date then he likely wasn;t but then again you are 13 and you guys could hook up later in life
guys will come and go but don't ever worry about if you are pretty enough cuz you are and i'm very up front about that stuff if an ugly person is walking down the street i make fun of them and no you don't need to lose weight
2006-10-09 18:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kate at 13 there are far more things for you to be doing than crying over a boy!! If is also 13 or older let me clue you in. He will only be after one thing and thats to get in your pants.!! Boys at that age its the first thought in the morning and the the last thought at night. Girls are smarter than that for the most part. Dont be one of these air heads on here that use their .... to keep a BOY around . GOOD LUCK HON
2006-10-09 17:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by horsetrainshoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seriously ok and plz dont try to lose weight by not eating--i have the PERFECT thing to do to lose weight!!!!!! i am 13 yrs old to and i am 5'6 and i used to weigh 135 but now i am down to 102!! this is what i did! ok u need to jog 1 mile each day.....try to jog the whole thing but if you can't then thats ok b/c you just started running......jog as much of it as you can but walk if absolutely nessecary. try doing as many situps each day as you can. every week or so try to increase the number of situps u can do by 5 or so. this might sound hard but i am soooo serious when i say that this really does work!!! and when u r running if you are getting tired and u want to quit, then just think of that guy!!!! also, it really helps to have a friend that is about your speed(not slower b/c then she will slow u down) come run w/ u after school. if u are by yourself then it is alot harder and everything is funner w/ a friend!! email me for more ideas to lose weight ( abbyh1513@yahoo.com) the RIGHT way(not by starving yourself) and as for the guy, this guy will pass, ik u think hes perfect and all, but one day, you will find THE perfect guy to spend the rest of your life w/ *
2006-10-09 17:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! I'm going through the same thing...well except my guy likes me..sorry. Anyway, I don't think I'm gorgeous, I know I'm pretty but I'm not obssessed with myself. You're pretty too, but not OMG she's drop-dead gorgeous, but you're pretty. Straighten your hair more often..it looks nice. This year I'm a freshmen in H.S. my friends say I'm totally different because I dress slutty (not really), I wear makeup, straighten my hair, and curse. Change your personality a little. Don't lose yourself though. Change so you are comfy with who you are. Don't change you're weight. I'm only 5'1 and I'm 100 pounds. You are probably taller so you weigh more. It's natural. Don't worry. And don't go bulemic or anything! I went through a weird stage where I really did throw up after every freakin meal. Then I stopped because I knew it was hurting me. I did lose weight, but I was really unhappy. If this guy can't appreciate you then, forget him. There's other fish in the sea. I'm really sorry, but I hope I helped!
2006-10-09 18:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Me<3JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so desperate. You're only 13. The guy YOU like doesn't HAVE to like you back. You're not his type. Or he is not interested in having a relationship at his age. You are obsessing and you need to stop. Start focusing more on your schoolwork and stop obsessing over having a boyfriend.
2006-10-10 14:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Katie, Katie.
Are you in love, or in love with being in love? i can assure you that very few of us are perfect. He will have his flaws, just like anyone else in the world.
Cry, it is good for you. then dry your eyes, square your shoulders, and smile at the chance he has missed. Being thinner, fatter, taller, shorter or more like Julia Roberts will not change his mind.
OK, maybe the Julia Roberts bit.
You look a very attractive girl, it does not help now, but you will meet other people, then you can compare them. Perhaps one day, you will have your chance again.
Don't go silly with the weight, 104lb sounds too thin to me.
2006-10-09 17:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont never cry over no dude. If he doesnt like you forget him. You are not stupid. If you want to lose weight do it for yourself not anybody else. You are young and got plenty more of life ahead of you with plenty more dudes coming. Dont let one dude get to you. You are pretty and smart.
2006-10-09 18:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by Terril 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww.... dont feel bad. you dont need to lose weight your fine the way you are. and let me tell you some thing. love your self before loving any one else. keep that in mind cause when your older your going to think about it and might even say it to your self from time to time. believe it. your 13 you have a lot of time.
best wishes to you.
2006-10-09 17:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋