2006-10-09 10:06:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Hi Billy. I used to hate my life a lot. I was in a very bad place withsome bad people around me. Finally, I made a plan. I sat down and thought about what would make me happier, safer and make my life seem that it had a purpose. I hope you will do that too. You are a creative person. Just use that gift to give yourself a vision of your own future. Then go in that direction one step at a time.
2006-10-09 10:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Change the angle from which one is looking at it.
If, from the point of view of consumation of life's pleasures or rewards you seem hard done by, there is the question of why? Everything in life makes sense.
Perhaps you are one of those people who came with a purpose into this life. And what if you are fulfilling it, full steam? Do you know your purpose?
People who just consume in life and get away with it, are usually just trial and error existence. Do not compare your life with that of others. Search for your own answers within your own heart and mind. There may be an angle of looking at your life and finding that it is just right.
If you believe there can be more to life than just the physical, and if you are a thinking person, try clicking on "Rational Spirituality" on the Dhaxem website.
2006-10-10 06:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling. If that doesn't work or is unaffordable, find out why you hate life. There is seriously no good reason, but if you happen to have a legitimate reason, set out to fix that problem. Simple as that. And don't go emo, cause then you'll be miserable and no noe in their right mind would like you.
2006-10-09 10:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kayari of Midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the one thing that makes him happy (there has to be at least one thing) and go with it. Like getting a guinea pig or something (I'd say puppy, but if the guy hates his life, he may not be emotionally stable to take care of a higher maintenance animal, like a dog).
2006-10-09 10:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by ucd_grad_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- Change; change anything. However small it is, as long as it's positive. Change for the sake of change, even if it doesn't seem directly related to your most pressing problems. As time progresses, work more at changing bigger things that do relate to those problems.
- Read Siddhartha by Herman Hesse
- Read anything - something new, or do something you haven't done before.
- Seek professional counseling
2006-10-09 10:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is what you make it.
If you hate your life then start changing things (e.g. Get an education, new job, new relationship, etc.) about your life in order to improve it.
2006-10-09 10:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by slingshot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change everything your doing, saying, wearing, and try something else out. Change friends, take different classes, read something you wouldn't normally read. Try a sport out especially if you consider yourself unathletic. The greatest thing about being young is you can F***k up, and change directions as many times as you want.
2006-10-09 10:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can make changes - as many or as few as he wants, to change it into a life he does't hate so much.
If that doesn't work, he can volunteer overseas - ie, throw his life away. Maybe if he survives war, he will come to appreciate the simple things, like breathing, walking, and having the option to change his mind according to his own free will.
2006-10-09 10:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Life is what we make it, If he cannot see that he is the one making his despicable life then he will die in that stage. If he got the energy to discover his errors then he can totally change his life.
2006-10-09 10:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by ol's one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
Ask what is hate?
Why is it in me?
Who is the me that hates?
Am i satisfied with opinions?
What is the feeling, i feel, which I call hate?
When people talk of love, do i understand ?
What is life?
What are my thoughts made of?
Who is the thinker?
Loads you can do!
Question is................do you want to?
2006-10-09 10:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by sotu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋