My girlfriend and i love eachother. but we recently broke up. then got back together. i think everything is fine. but she says some things are different. she doesnt love anyone else and she says she still loves me. everything is still rocky. and we arent happy. but i dont wanna live without her. can i get some advice on what to do?
2006-10-09 10:02:30 · 3 answers · asked by d_rizzle5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
don't ever think things are "just fine" w/o really going thru, communicating with, and trying to change for the Better. i say, try your best to be open minded, and open to her feelings. do your best to take care of her Needs and Wants...and if that means asking her what she'd like, do it...and if it means going out of ur way to do nice things for her, do it. as long as u think she deserves it, and she appreciates it, do extra..... don't ever let things go and think "it's ok now".... u can always be a Better boyfriend. try hard to let her know you care, and be observant to her needs. if she is sad, or if she is unhappy, help her try to solve the problem Together. good luck
2006-10-09 10:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was one thing that I have always been told..." It's never the same the second time around." And really, it isn't. But that doesn't mean it can't or won't work out. But YOU and HER have to work at it, if you want it to work out. Learn to forgive, and talk about problems. Learn to trust. If you both really still love eachother, it will be worth it. It's not something you want to throw away.
Right now, you both need to forgive and forget anything that was in the past. Then you both need to sit down and talk. Do fun things that you BOTH enjoy. Small gestures of love will also be helpful.
Show her how much you appreciate her, and she should do the same.
I really hope this helps you out.....I'm not sure of your entire situation, otherwise I would offer more....Good Luck!!!!!
2006-10-09 10:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cblack22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go & see a relationships counsellor- preferrably together - but if she is unwilling to go ; then go on your own
MOST importantly though keep the communication going between the both of you & REALLY listen to what she is saying to you
2006-10-09 11:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋