my girlfriend told me she had quit smoking then 2-3 months later fessed up that she lied what should i do?

Answer 1

Nothing. When you met her you knew she smoked so its not like the end of the world. And you have to realize that smoking is an extremely hard addiction to break. Just be supportive. The more you make her feel bad about it the more likely she will hide it.

Answer 2

Well, if you really love her I would give her another chance, because it's possible she really can quit. Maybe all she needs is your steadfast support and love to help her quit. It's got to be a hard thing to do - nicotine is a highly addictive drug, and the act of smoking has become such a habit that holding a long white stick between her fingers comforts her. Also make sure she knows that it's ok that if she's having trouble quitting she can tell you and you won't be upset with her.

Answer 3

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I quit smoking 2 years ago


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HOW THE METHOD WORKS

Using psychotherapy, the method works in the opposite way to the “willpower” method. It does not concentrate on the reasons the smoker should not smoke : the money, the slavery, the health risks and the stigma. Smokers know all that already. Instead it focuses on why smokers continue to smoke in spite of the obvious disadvantages.

It is fear that keeps smokers hooked!

Fear the smoker will have to give up their pleasure or crutch. Fear the smoker will be unable to enjoy life or handle stress. Fear the smoker will have to go through an awful trauma to get free. Fear the smoker will never get completely free from the craving.

The Method removes these fears
Smokers quit with the Allen Carr Method as happy non-smokers, not feeling deprived but with a huge sense of relief and elation that they have finally achieved what they always wanted….

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What about the terrible withdrawal pangs from nicotine?

The physical withdrawal from nicotine is so slight that most smokers don’t realise that they are addicts. What smokers suffer when they try and quit using other methods is the misery and depression caused by the belief that they are being deprived of a pleasure or a crutch.

The Allen Carr Method removes this feeling of deprivation.
It removes the need and desire to smoke. Once the smoker is in the right frame of mind and they follow the simple instructions, the physical withdrawal from nicotine is hardly noticeable.

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You need not gain weight.
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A personal view from Professor Judith Mackay MBE, JP, FRCO (Edin), FRCP (Lon), World Health Organisation Advisory Panel on Tobacco and Health

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Dr Anil Visa BSc, MBBch., FRCA, Consultant – Royal Hospitals NHS Trust – Royal London Hospital

“I have observed the Allen Carr method at first hand and have found it to be very successful and I wholeheartedly support it as an effective way to quit smoking.”

Dr William Green, Head of Psychiatric Dept, Matilda Hospital, Hong Kong

“It is a remarkable fact that Allen Carr, on his own admission a non-professional in behaviour modification, should have succeeded where countless psychologists and psychiatrists holding postgraduate qualifications have failed, in formulating a simple and effective way to stop smoking.”

Dr Martin Jarvis, Principle Scientist, Imperial Cancer Research
Fund and Reader in Health Psychology, University College London

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Celebrity Endorsements

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Sir Richard Branson

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Sir Anthony Hopkins

GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

i'm in the exact same situation with my boyfriend. he's very stubborn and seems to think that one every once in a while is ok when he's pissed or something. i just try to show him how much it hurts knowing he's doing something that could endanger him like that and the fact that he lied. lots of luck to you!

Answer 5

well..keep telling her to quit smoking.... or else give her another chance..if she really cant do it.. or if u really guys love each other... forgive and understand whats goin on in ur relationships...

Answer 6

forgive her and help her quit!It is hard!