Everytime in the last couple of months i get more and more turned on by my gf everytime im with her.And many times even when she's not there.Sumtimes ive to hide my...well u know the hard mass from her.Now she's 18 and im 19.I dunno how to bring out this topic to her...coz i luv her and i dont want this to end with her thinkin im some pervert.i want this to continue.So shud i ask her to go for it as in u knwo the next step or shud i just keep quite?It's not that she's totally religious or anyhting it's just that everytime i picture even bringing out the topic i picture the worst
2006-10-09 08:32:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
If by the next step you mean propose to her for marriage definately. If you mean have sex no. You should wait until you are married to have sex. I know this can be hard but if I can do you can do it. As far as being a per God made us to have desires for someone of the opposite sex so I would say that this is perfectly normal. If you think that your girlfriend would act undesirerably to what you want to ask you are probably right they say your gut feeling is usually right. Also if you really respected yourself and your girlfriend and whoever your future wife may be it may be her you will wait for your wedding night to have sex. This truly is the best present you can give to each other is your complete self. It is not complete if you already gave it to someone a long time ago. Also by waiting you have no one else to compare your partners love making abilities to so therefore your partner is the best love maker in the world to you. I have seeen many marriages end because one or the other did not live up to the other expectations like they thought they should because they thought everyone should be as good as ther old boyfriends or girlfriendsl if they did not of had these other partners they would not have had these problems.
2006-10-09 19:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start out by talking about the topic, the consequences,regrets etc. Than ask her if she is ready but not in a way that you're pushing her good luck!
2006-10-09 15:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she feels about taking the next step. Hopefully it will be as simple as her telling you whether she does or she doesn't. Don't push her into having sex unless you want her to give her a flat out NO. Another thing, don't feel bad about being aroused by your g/f. It's not perverted, it happens.
2006-10-09 15:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by soulsogood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is talk to her. If you have been with her for 2 years now..you 2 should be able to talk about anything....good luck but be claer in telling her what you want...
2006-10-09 15:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by tgannon04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u guys have been dating for 2 years so i think that she really likes you ( nice job) you should give her a ring with "i luv you " carved inside then you can express your self though jewlery good luck wish you the best :) tell me how it goes
2006-10-09 16:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by laurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she ever think about having sex...then talk about protection..ask if shes on birth controll and what u2 will do if she becomes pregnate...sounds like alot huh well jsut call her and say..i have something i really want to talk to u about.please try to take this serious because this is goin to be heard for me and i dont want this to end our relationship.good luck
2006-10-09 15:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine_loves_yooh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it. It's been two years, you should be able to tell her anything. If she has sex with you don't expect her to give it up all the time and don't pester her for it. It gets annoying
2006-10-09 15:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years later, be smooth about it and either start undressing her slowly or ask her 2 marry you.. simple as that : )
2006-10-09 15:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to marry you. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-10-09 15:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by perplexed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her how she feels about it first and that you respect and love her and wouldnt put pressure on her into doing something she wasnt ready for.
2006-10-09 15:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Bri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋