I want my revenge on this bitchy girl, named Sanora, She insults me constantly even after I tried being nice to her it just never works... I tried ignoring her but somethimes we are FORCED to be nice to eachother because of the VOLLEYBALL team were on. TEAMWORK that's why. Now she took my best friend away from me and turned it all around.
2006-10-09 08:28:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she sounds like one of those who if you give her enough rope to hang her will
so rise above it , people will see though her you carry on being nice and make her look evey inch the bad one
2006-10-09 08:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is as awful a person as you say you need to wonder why your girl friend would now be her friend. If your friend knows what an awful person she is (and especially to you, if that's accurate) then you are better off without such a friend you'd betray you and take up with some rotten person. (Birds of feather...., though)
If she is only awful to you and is nice in front of your friend then she'll eventually reveal her real self to your friend, and that issue will take care of itself.
If you girlfriend wants to be friends with both of you and doesn't want to get in the middle of something you and the other girl have going on between you, that's reasonable. You don't have exclusive rights to her friendship.
I know you're young, but decide to see how superior it can feel to muster up some maturity and rise above what has gone on - and move on. If your best friend is someone who could be "taken away" there was something wrong in your relationship anyway; because genuine best friends cannot be "taken away" by anyone. No matter how young you are if your relationship with your best friend is solid nothing can break it up.
Forget revenge. That's stupid. Sanora couldn't have taken your best friend without your best friend's participation. Even if Sanora is a crummy person, you cannot blame her for simply befriending someone. The person you need to blame is either your best frame or even yourself (if you have done something that alienated your best friend). Your best friend isn't some little, vegetable, object without a brain and without ability to make decisions for herself.
If she started hanging out with Sanora rather than you she's the one you have the axe to grind with, not the girl that has never pretended to be your friend anyway. Still, if your friend is willing to abandon you she isn't worth revenge either. Just muster up some maturity and don't let it bother you more than it already has.
2006-10-09 15:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sanora is not worth the time and energy you are wasting planning your revenge. There are people like that, just deal with it!!!
As for your best friend...what is her problem? Is she so immature she can't be friends with more then one person at a time?
You are going to run into people like Sanora a million more times in your life. Talking trash about her to others and "getting revenge" just causes you to sink to her level.
Be the bigger person and move on...it is not worth it!
2006-10-09 15:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the ***** to back off because noone especially not my little sister gets treated like that.. if I were you I would do something about it so don't just sit ther letting her do sh** like that. I think what you should do is get her number and call it BLOCKED of course then make the best prank call that's sure to get her in trouble. Or just plant druggs liek the other guy said.
2006-10-09 16:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by helpME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew someone like that once. I still hate her even thought for all I know she could be in prison. She stole my friend even before kindergarten then turned a whole huge group of girls into snobs like her.
Of course this girl could have problems of her own and just acts like a ***** b/c of insecurites. Your former friend could just be trying to help her.
Good luck with whatever choice you make.
2006-10-09 15:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't steal friends. maybe your friend likes that other girl too. and if she doesn't want to be your friend, then she really wasn't one in the first place. Also by trying to get revenge on someone. Common grow up. Be the bigger person. She does stuff to you because she knows it gets to you. If you honestly ignore her, she will stop.
2006-10-09 15:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by sxymma3323 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously jealous of you. Shes trying to take everything from you because you're (prettier, stronger, faster, smarter, whatever) better than her in her eyes. Its really sad but you can feel flattered by that. Don't let her get to you. She's making you turn evil and you are losing your friends because of it. Prove to yourself and to her that what makes you better is your ability to rise above it all. Don't let your hatred and anger rule you. You rule those emotions. Its okay to be mad, just don't show her or your friends that you even care. They'll come back to you because she'll screw it up by bad mouthing you around them. Just be strong.
2006-10-09 15:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anger is not an ally in life. Although you might be right, being in anger ends to nothingness. You know that in life there is a cycle of action : start,change,stop. How about following it ?
Change, now your operating basis and stick to other friends and make a new start, choosing your new friends!!! How about it ???
Ciao......John-John.
2006-10-09 15:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm revenge is best served with an evil genious on ur side :) wish i could help ya but u need some1 who knows the ppl ur on abt and the battle ground etc so find an evil genious in ur shoool and devise a good plan :) good luck girlie
2006-10-09 15:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should plant some drugs in her backpack or locker and then anonymously report it to the school.
She could easily get expelled and , of course, off the team, and then you would have the opportunity to get your friend back without her interference.
She started this, so there is nothing wrong with doing whatever you have to to get back at her.
2006-10-09 15:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by FatPussy MeowMeow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋