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2006-10-09 08:15:46 · 37 answers · asked by Inspector 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just my opinion but I think married people shouldnt watch porn because if your married, you spouse is supposed to be the only one who can/should pleasure you. If you watch porn its like being pleasured by other people and that just goes against my religion, but everyone has their own opinions and beliefs =)
2006-10-09 08:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-23 02:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 18:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Hubert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's certainly disrespectful if you do it and she has told you she doesn't like for you to. It's also somewhat desensitizing...the more you see, the more you need, and it may be hard for your wife to live up to your fantasies. I'd suggest you cut it back a lot, and if you can't, then you have another problem. Porn can be very addictive.
If you are watching the bus instead of being with your wife, then yes, you are cheating her out of your time. If you're doing it after she goes to bed because you're a night owl and she's not, try to find something else to occupy your time. If you are doing it because you don't get enough s e x in your marriage, then you need to tell your wife that, and not in a threatening or victimized way, but that you WANT her, and porn is a poor substitute for a hot marriage. It may take counseling too.
I'm not saying porn is always bad (though my religion would say so, and they might be right too) but it has a bad habit of intruding on your life, of disrupting normal relationships, of taking more of your time away from other things. (Then again, so does Yahoo Answers). So try to strike a balance, talk with your wife, spice up your own sex life, and try to reduce porn to maybe when your wife is away for a few days, or when you're on a business trip. Still not the best way to spend your time, but more respectful and better for your marriage this way.
2006-10-09 09:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by newbie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 14:59:48 · answer #5 · answered by lirette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have an understanding reference porn. If I want to watch it I which I do, but, its not the heavy stuff.
Question is why, what does porn do for you that your lady cannot..porn is just an outlet because you are frustrated, maybe you and your lady are not as intimate as you would like it to be. Do you really need to watch porn? What goes through your mind when you watch it? Does it arouse you? Is there something your wife could do to stop you from watching it///without causing any animosity between you. I watch it because I write sex stories and it gives me input, innovation and motivation.
There are men and women who only know of one position in bed and that is the missionary, you need to experiment, tell your wife you want to try something new, she may come round to your way of thinking. Give it a try.
2006-10-09 08:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Le Baron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never seen bang bus... but I think that you should consider your wifes feelings on watching porn... not that there is anything wrong with it... some woman (not including me) just find it nasty and they seem to think you are looking at it because something is wrong with them... but if its going to cause problems in your relationship, then dont do it.
2006-10-09 08:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling emotionaly cheated. She feels that she isn't good enough so you have to turn to porn. In a catch 22, you may start comparing some of the women to her wishing she had some of the qualities. This could definatly cause problems in your marrige. You really need to talk to her about her feelings, and why she's upset. Don't brush her off and tell her she's being silly. Yeah it's just watching, but it's emotional cheating, and you need to hear where she's coming from.
2006-10-09 08:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by muzicizlife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is unhappy because she feels excluded from intimacy she feels you should turn to her for.
She doesn't like being excluded. Consider gently introducing her to the things you like. Pick a flick that's mild. Have her come sit with you. Just say, "Honey, check this out....." kinda wicked, kinda like sharing a naughty secret. Tell her you love having sex with her and that it really turns you on when you can share your fantasies with her. She'll be shocked, appalled, tantalized, and intrigued.
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Visit the sites for Kama Sutra or Tantric Sex with her. Wherever her starting point is. Just don't exclude her for now. She'll relax when she realizes she's not getting replaced. And then you can share the internet in your foreplay with her.
2006-10-09 08:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Porn is just another way of cheating. Sex is suppose to be an intimate connection shared between two people, not several. It can also create unnatural expectations.Why do you need it? What ever purpose it has...let your wife serve that need.
2006-10-09 09:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋