My older sister likes the same guy as i do, and he he talks to both of us...all the time
2006-10-09 08:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I were you I would sit back and carry on like you have been. If he likes you better then your older sister he will be the first to let you know. If you try to pursue him and he is interested in your sister then you will go down in flames. Patience is the best policy and if he likes you, you won't be the one with egg on your face in the end. I hope that helps and good luck, there are plenty of guys out there if this one doesn't work out for you.
2006-10-09 08:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sis will always be there for you, and in a year where will this guy be? I am very close to my sister who is 2 yrs younger than me and we argue all the time about some things but when we need eachother we back eachother up. There are a ton of other guys out there, so no matter how great this guy seems he's one you should BOTH pass up.
2006-10-09 08:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should just stay away from this guy. Hes only a guy you two are sisters that bond is very strong and if one goes out with him it will upset the other.
2006-10-09 09:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tanner and Leahs MaMa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sticky situation you have here. It's best if you talk to your sister and ask her what she thinks of him. if you find out that you like him more than your sister does then go for it. But if you find out that your sister is besotted by him and she doesn't want loose any sort of battle then leave her alone and go and talk to the boy. I know it can be hard to talk to boys about things like in this situation but it's the best thing to do, if you find out that he likes you then you go for it. But if you find out that he doesn't and he's only trying to get closer to your sister then leave him be. At least you would no and you will be able to get on with your life.
2006-10-09 08:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia16125 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to the guy Sisters are forever men come and go!He clearly has no concern for the trouble he is bringing.
2006-10-09 08:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. If he likes you better, he'll let you know. I lost plenty of boyfriends to my sister...she was prettier. Ya know what? didn't matter. When you find the "one" he will think you are the only one. Be nice to him...but be cool. You know your sister better than he does...would they be a good match? You don't want to try to push yourself on him. If it's ment to be, it will be. He may be trying to get both of you...be careful what you wish for...you just might get it.
2006-10-09 08:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a boy bet between the 2 of you. Boys will come and go, but she will always be your sister, don't mess that relationship up over a boy.... Good Luck.
2006-10-09 08:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him a competition. But don't be unfair and don't cry to long IF your lose. And talk to your sister. Boys come and go but family is family.
2006-10-09 08:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should dump him. he' can'tmake up his mind. Whatever he decides he'll always wonder what he gave it. It will lead to insecurity on the part of the one who dates him.
2006-10-09 08:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out who he likes the most.
2006-10-09 08:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋