i'm a very straight forward kind of guy and i cldn't fool myself by cheating others.she knows me very well, I understood her very well. but,when i bother myself and told her my feeling to her, she replied first with a question why i feel so? and after listing my answer she took two day's and responded me with heartbreaking answer. but, i'm not convience with answer and i belive she took me wrong. now, you buddies show me the way towards her. My life is not going to finish without her.
2006-10-09 08:13:15 · 7 answers · asked by MAHEN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
perhaps its too soon. give it time. i know if someone were to ask me too soon i would reject them as well. nothing against them, but i would just need more time to see if thats the person i want to spend the rest of my life with.
2006-10-09 08:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by NAQ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mahen... $hit happens.. straight forward..sadly, if she doesn't want to be with you.. there's nothing for you to do other than to be friend's, and hope for the best but my suggestion, is to find someone else, that will feel the same towards you.
You and this woman haven't got to anything long term, so I'd sugguest just to leave it, and find someone that'll want to be with you as well.. it's tough.. I'm going through a break-up, and it's not easy.. but would you really want to be with someone that doesn't fully feel 100% the same towards you? Mrs.Mahen isn't going to just show up on the count of three.. these thing's take time.. be patient, and the right one will eventually come along.. Goodluck! And I hope you the best =)
2006-10-09 08:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is like a seed ,and relationships are like soil ..you have to work on them ..you must understand the fact that you want her you love she mustnt feel the same way .you must take your time and ask her why she answered in the negative. you would be surprised as to what you will find out.plus she sees things diffrently from you ..remember you are two diffrent peolpe...
2006-10-09 08:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by painter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her reasoning behind saying no should give you some idea of whether or not it's worth it to wait. Listen to your gut feeling, even if it's telling you something you may not want to know.
2006-10-09 08:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she isnt feeeling the ame way about u ! u need to understand mix feelings arent good in a realtionship!
2006-10-09 08:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes proballynot ready. Ask her her life ambitions and goals and see if yours are the same, she might think you want differnt things.
2006-10-09 08:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her & move on wiz ur life
2006-10-09 08:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by merna12101983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋