Why when having sex do men find it an extra turn on and horny if the lady is noisy and expressive? I ask because i tend to get very noisy during sex and have been told that this is such a turn on, however, I dont understand? I see it as being myself and expressing my enjoyment. What is it about al the moaning and screaming that gets a bloke so excited? Serious opinions please, i'm not looking for cheap thrills from this, i'm genuinly perplexed.
2006-10-09 08:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by Lyndsey B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because they are comparing it with porn, all men like to think they are a porn star. Plus they think they are the bees knees because they think they are turning you on so much, even faking it works!
2006-10-09 08:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason it's a turn on is because the guy feels a sense of accomplishment. He feels like if you make any kind of noise a moan or scream he is giving you pleasure which in turn gives him pleasure. Nothing pleases a man more than to know that he is pleasuring someone they are being intimate with.
2006-10-09 08:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My experience has been that the volume isn't as important as expressing yourself: even if it's "no, no - go back to where you were" or "a little to the left", at least they know you're participating. I've been amazed to hear how many women make no sound at all - maybe that's why men are so glad to be with a woman who makes some noise.
My boyfriend's favorite thing to hear from me is a whisper, when I think I'm done - but he always proves me wrong. ; )
2006-10-09 08:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by 40yomama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they look at it as a form of validation. It turns them on to know/think that they are really doing something. I mean, if the girl was just laying there looking at them with a straight face the whole time, obviously she isn't enjoying herself, and it makes the man feel small.
2006-10-09 08:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Independent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys just like to know that they are giving there partner pleasure and that they are enjoying that pleasure. Also the louder and more expresive you are the more aroused guys get its like seeing breats, guys get turned on by them similar thing with when women moan during sex. hope thats helped a bit x
2006-10-09 08:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by ErAgOn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men take it as you are telling them they are doing it just right and they are the best. We like and need to be told that usually. Personally, it doesn't matter to me, as long as you are satisfied over & over again, then I'm happy whether you are noisy or silent.
2006-10-09 08:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are turned on by things they can see and hear. . . . . . . . woman are more deep and very sentimental thats why you may notice not as many woman watch porn!!!! xx
2006-10-10 03:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think its just the fact that guy knows buy you making noise that what he is doing is effective and you like it.
2006-10-09 09:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tanner and Leahs MaMa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think us men are visually and audibly aroused, as opposed the females, emotionally. It is what we hear and see that rocks our world..
2006-10-09 08:15:51 · answer #9 · answered by dwayne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋