Is there something she,s not telling me?

Question

I now have 2 bosses; my immediate supervisor/boss is a women. I,m a janitor/housekeeper(guy),she claims I never come and talk to her just like everyone else, when she knows my job is routine and I,ll come to her if I need something, or if there,s a problem, she says its cause I have an attitude. What does she expect me to say? or is it something else?

Answer 1

She either dislikes you, or likes you, and neither is real good in a boss of the opposite sex.
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Answer 2

I believe your female boss wants you to feel comfortable at work... to become a part of the "team". Maybe she sees you like a shy person who only wants to do his job -- to focus on his job alone. She probably wants you to be open, too, not only to herself as your boss but to you co-workers as well. You might want to show her some little changes in your attitude; like, for example, if you see her say, "good morning, Ma'am... nice weather today, huh?"... and with a smile, of course. Anyone can be pleased with that simple greeting. Try it.

Answer 3

I believe I would ask what it is she wants to talk about? I would do this politely, and actually wanting to know? There are ways to put people in an uncomfortable position without leaving a trace of doing so. By placing the responsibility of her talking to you upon her, and her own needs [regardless what those might be] you cannot be accused of being disrespectful or doing something that can be cited.

Peace

Answer 4

You're doing the right thing. Why go to her unless you need too?? Sounds to me like SHE"S the one with the "attitude"".

Answer 5

she wants you to come chat with her occasionally