Im 13 and my parents were fighting about 10 mins ago,When i was right infront of them,they didnt even care that I was there.My mom threw a chair at him and it hit him in the chest.I can here my mom packing up the car to leave and take me and my brother to live 2 hours away.My dad does pott.Im scared!And I dont want to move!!!They were fighting right in front of me and I just followed them around the house while they were,making sure they didnt hurt eachother too bad.Im so scared....eh What do I do....
2006-10-09 08:00:14 · 21 answers · asked by paige l 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Oh and I never talk to my dad..I pretty much cant stand him,he wanted me aborted!!!I dont care how my mom hurts him!I just dont want anything to get out of hand....And my mom cant drive either she has seizures....so i guess my 16 yr old brother is gonna take us....
2006-10-09 08:06:06 · update #1
If they are still fighting call the police and explain what's going on. Ask for the police to send a woman so she can take you to a womans shelter. They are equipped to handle women and their children.
2006-10-09 08:16:31 · answer #1 · answered by momoftwo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of my bestfriends has just went through this, what he did was talk to some one he trusted. IE: his best friend *me*, His friends at school, his teachers, his football coach, etc. And even though he didnt want to hear it he had to accept that no matter what was going on, His parents arent fighting because of him. And they both still love him very much. Its going to be ok. Also try sitting down with both of them, seperatly and tell them how it is making you feel. If you have a school counciler or a counciler that works at the school even if it isn't yours see if you can talk to them about it. Talk to some one about it. But what ever you do dont keep it is side of you. A guy i know did that and he really messed up know, like doing drugs stealing $ etc.
2006-10-09 15:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by crazy8girl07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay calm, go with your mom and brother. Be supportive to your mom, this is probably a very difficult decision for her to make. Remember nothing lasts forever, don't be worried that you're never going to see your friends again. Mom probably just needs a few days to get away and sort things out. Give her lots of hugs and tell her you love her.
2006-10-09 15:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to go with your mom for now. If she stayed there the fighting might get worse and someone might get hurt. You shouldn't stay with your dad if he has a problem with drugs. He needs to straighten himself out before he can take care of you. Try to be brave and don't be angry with them for needing some time and space apart.
2006-10-09 15:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by S. O. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to remain calm this can be a real stressfull thing to go through best thing talk to someone about it whether a teacher freind or family member because you shopuldnt go through it alone and you shouldnt keep it all bottled in to yourself and remeber your parents love you and your siblings but may not be focused on that right now but dont give up hope on them and talk to some one i cant stress that enough good luck sweetheart i hope everything will get better for you soon.
2006-10-09 15:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by momma3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. But I think the best thing that you can do is to leave. I have had to move before also, it isn't easy, but if he is doing drugs, then he shouldn't be around. Also, wanted you aborted is horrible. I think the safest thing is for you guys to leave, QUICKLY! Good luck, God Bless, and I'll pray for you.
2006-10-09 15:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Horse Lover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should call your grandma, a teacher, counselor, pastor, even the police...your parents shouldn't be fighting like that in front of their children. I'm sorry...I know that can be scarey. Talk to an adult maybe they can help you since they know your situation better.
2006-10-09 15:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by Chi1linVi1lain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact the you dad smokes pot has nothiung to do with this so eliminate it out of the question. If I were you I would just go to a friends house and hang out for a little while.
2006-10-09 15:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should get out of that house NOW!It not safe.Just go to your neighbors and have them call the police.You dont need to be in messes like that.
2006-10-09 15:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by wvcountrygirl_93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go with your mom for the time being, so that at least the fighting is not happening! It sounds to me like your mom is overly stressed and needs help in finding a way to deal with the issues your dad is imposing on your family. She needs your support just as much as you need hers... in the meantime just as soon as you can, you need to talk to someone like a counselor or a minister or someone like that... and if she stays with your dad and they continue fighting ... get out of there, go to a neighbors and get them to call the police before it does get out of hand. And please see about as soon as u can talking to a guidance counselor at school.. your school needs to be aware with what is going on so they can aid in what best benefits you as this stress at home can affect everthing going on with you, your friendships, your grades, your attitudes and all... so please talk with someone.. please please!!! Wish u the best hon, you'll be in my prayers!!!
2006-10-09 15:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by someone s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋