Me and my fiance live together. She is a scout for a modeling agency. Lately when she comes home, she seems really depressed. She works 14 hours a day, and I work 8-10. I don't know what to do to make her feel happier. She won't really tell me what her problem is. She just says she's not in a good mood. She and I haven't had any sexual activity for about one month. I don't think having sex will make her feel better, though. What can I do to make her happier?
2006-10-09 07:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take her some place where you can both escape the routine life. I know that for me, when things get too routine or tedious it really drags me down and I get depressed. It's good for a change of pace, fresh air, somewhere you feel like you can finally breath. Do some research online or ask around about places you can take her. And I'm not talking about the usual movies or dinner or shopping. Take her somewhere that's new for the both of you. Try it. It may be refreshing for the two of you. You might even want to surprise her with something really romantic like a dinner cruise or take her on a small road trip someplace interesting. People need to feel alive sometimes when everything seems entirely mundane and meaningless. We need a reminder that we're here for a reason and our lives are going somewhere. Hope this helps!!!
2006-10-09 08:02:51 · answer #1 · answered by bassnectarluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a kiss or hug kind of out of the blue one! or try writting a little "i love you and thinking of you" note and hide it in her purse b4 she goes to work... does she keep a spare key to her car at home? buy a bunch of red roses and write a poem on a home made card and leave it in the front seat for her to find after she gets off work (dont worry if u think u suck at poetry its always cute when a guy trys to write a poem no matter how long or short).... those are a few ideas but i think they will put a smile on her face and maybe you'll get lucky ;) just don't push her about things the whole modeling thing is stressful think about things to relax her she deserves it after 14 hrs at work... maybe a candle lit, rose peddle bubble bath will do the trick... if u really love her don't be afraid to try diffrent things sometimes girls don't know what they want themselfs... we're just difficult like that! i'm sure u know that already though!
2006-10-09 08:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First deliver him a proper image of you (no longer something grimy ofcourse, except he likes that kind of stuff) next deliver him some products which you 2 shared jointly. if he collects particular activities or nic nacs deliver him some thing that he could have on show so he can say howdy my fiance sent me this. it is not plenty yet as a guy that's what could help for me....something that could strike a cord in me of being back in my infant's palms.
2016-10-02 03:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surprise her with some nice dinner out. When u both r there let her know how much u love her n worry abt her. let her know also that her wories r ur worries too. Try to her her to ope up, but dont push her ok.
Goodluck!!
2006-10-09 08:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw her a nice warm bath of razor blades adn rubbing alcohol. Pick her up and throw her in. THAT will change her mood.
2006-10-09 08:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to open up or you will never know
2006-10-09 08:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋