Hi, It seems to me and my friends that I always develop attachment for people who won't care about me. usually, I fall in love with straight russian guys. My friend told me that i do this because actually i'm very afraid to develop a relationship with someone, intimacy, so I'll always fall in love with people who will reject me so that I don't have to go deep. Then I told him a story about something that happened in my childhood and although I know it's very revealing i think I should share: when I was 06 years old I saw my parents ahving sex on a couch, and my daddy was penetrating my mom with a bottle of beer, although she didn't want it, but finally agreed. Since then, everytime i think of sex, well, you guys know what I mean, I don't feel so good....what you think? I'm in love with this straight russian guy who has a gf. Could what my friend told me be true?
2006-10-09 07:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, get a clue about relationships.
2006-10-09 09:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to stop thinking about the physical part of your relationship and think about leaving this russian guy. I mean you are apart of an affair. Maybe in your heart you soul is tell you that having this affair with this russian guy is wrong. So, thats why you get those vision of your parents doing it w/beer bottle back into your brain.
Step one: Leave this guy.
Step two: Get a real gay guy thats not cheating.
Step three: Go slow
P.S. Love is not a train you take just once.
2006-10-09 08:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is right on and I think you need some counseling to help you pick emotionally availible men and deal with the f*cked up beer bottle sex thing.
2006-10-09 09:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, WAY T.M.I. Go talk to Dr. Phil loser!
2006-10-09 08:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by ssdstt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fabulous, I liked your other pic better. It was more you, more fabulous.
2006-10-09 09:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by aza_424 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try counseling nothing to be embarrassed at.
2006-10-09 07:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
T M I
2006-10-09 08:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋