My husband served me divorce papers almost a year ago. So he and his girl friend could be togther. I agree to every thing in the papers just to get away from it. Now that I have found happiness he is trying his best to take that away too... Why when he is living with someone.. I am not living with anybody. I am just seeing someone that is the totally different from my ex. My ex has now gone to the man's job and is trying to get him fired. Plus he has been spreading rumors about me. I just can't understand this.. Now I really don't know how thing's are going to play out between me and my friend.. Someone please help me.......
2006-10-09 07:30:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you should relocate...or get a restraining order...he obviously has some unresolved issues, but you have no need to take them into your new life. Get your lawyer involved, this harassment should not be tolerated.
2006-10-09 07:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say whether or not children were involved. Did he beat you while you were married to him? That's the kind of man he sounds like. Hopefully your new boyfriend's employer is understanding and will tell the guy (I've got to be nice here) to get off company grounds. I would push to get the divorce over with as soon as possible. He doesn't own you you know. A restraining order sounds like a really good idea for both you and your new boyfriend. Boy this is one of those times one thinks about hiring two really big men to kick the stuffing out him then have them tell him if he doesn't leave you alone he will get more of the same. I didn't say that!! Good luck honey.
2006-10-09 08:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it hit him hey she can get someone else and he wont have you to go back to if his relationship does not work out .my husband left me for another when he realized it was not going to be what he thought he called and said to put our divorce on hold.he sounds confused and he knows he lost you due to his own games good for him if the new guy sticks buy you though this mess hes a keeper if not move on and be secretive about your private life.wait till this all blows over lie and tell people you broke up so it gets back to him and he will leave your new bf alone.good luck and dont take that creep back,
2006-10-09 07:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is prob miserable in his relationship and wants you to be as well. How does he even know where your friend works? You and the friend should file restraining orders BUT do that after your friend KICKS HIS ASSSS. (oh my did I say that...well thats what I would do so if your not like me..file the orders and ignore the loser)
2006-10-09 09:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a loser be glad that you are divorcing. Just try to ride it out for now. Maybe restraining orders could help.
2006-10-09 07:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce is a very bitter thing... it is the ending of a relationship... I would bet that he is trying to hurt you as he is still hurt your relationship did not last... regardless of who served the divorce papers... however I would suggest trying to call him (record the conversation) and ask him to please stop... if he does not get a restraining order for you and your new boyfriend.
Good Luck
2006-10-09 07:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your friend need to sit back and have a good laugh at how much of a loser your ex is and make a vow that you and him will not let the ex get to either of you.
2006-10-09 07:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds borderline harassment, depending on what is going on it may just be that. If you can keep a record of phone conversations. let others know you feel threatened. Talk to the police about your options, they may not do something, but they can advise you on how to protect yourself, and your new relationship.
2006-10-09 08:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by muzicizlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order.
2006-10-09 07:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is miserable and fakes his happiness. he realized what a good woman you were and does not want anyone else to have you. get a damn restraining order against him he continues to Harass you. otherwise he will continue raising hell in your life.
2006-10-09 07:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋