as told by her..hers is a love marriage ...of lately she read few letters that were writen by a female to her better half ..very much vulgar (about the sex she would like to have ) there have been no secrets between them ...is it adviceable for her to ask herhusband about this ... already she have told him a bit of it ..not clearly though ...on this matter
2006-10-09 07:29:53 · 14 answers · asked by tamanaahamed 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just ask her to throw 'em in to dustbin, and forget everything about that.
As they hav no secrets tell her to beleive that he is good. B'cas this may be only the girls wish to hav sex with him.
2006-10-09 07:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by Muttama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I thought your friend doesnt hide anything from her husband. If that is so, she should have asked him the moment she saw such a letter and not wait this long. More than that, how come your friend has told this to a third person in their relationship (you), but is still thinking about asking her husband... her love??? And what is this little bit she has told? Too many loose ends coz of which the answer to your question is a lil complicated....
2006-10-10 00:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by kartyk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you need to be clear were these letters written after marriage please do find out?
It can also be one sided like only women was intersted so give him benefit of doubt?
If man is encouraging other women even after getting married then there is a serious problem may be he is a womaniser sorry to say this have a strict vigil on him and try to catch him if he is having affair with other women he mmay get sexual transmitted disease find out at the earliest lastly its your friend who has to take decision so take it easy and dont force your advice on her i guess she is best person to understand the situation and hence she will be best judge
2006-10-09 09:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by cupiddear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should talk first but in a calm way. for the wife always give a benefit of a doubt, its just a letter we dont know yet if its for real or just crap. and lastly, before talking to your husband you ask youself, are you a good wife? do you look good when your husband goes home from work? do you nag him? at your most intimate moment are you open to new experinces to explore with him? all in all do you lack anything or theres just something missing in your relationship.
2006-10-09 08:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by foreverlady74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are no secrets has the husband discussed these letters with the wife? If I were the wife I would ask the woman myself then see what she has to say.
2006-10-09 08:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and ask him if he is willing to change this behavior. If not, leave because he obviously doesn't want a relationship with her. I am going through the same thing, but I was too stupid to see my husband doesn't want to have any relationship with me. Tell her it is better to face what is real than to try to ignore it because she is afraid of being alone. It hurts worse the longer you hold on.
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2016-10-19 02:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront hubby right away. Then ask him if there is anything she can do for him to make him feel the way the other woman does? This gives him proof that she wants only him and loves him and believes he is the special one in her life. Wish her luck!
2006-10-09 07:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she must talk with him, & he better have a good expaination as to where the letters came from, & why he's keeping them around. This is no time to dance around the issue, she needs to talk to him in a direct manner, & now.
2006-10-09 07:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since hers is a love marriage she should believe her husband than the trash letters written by some girls.
2006-10-10 03:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by toliagoldstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋