I'm a guy and he's a guy. he's funny, outgoing, everyone just love's him, and now i have fallen for him. he's hot and makes u feel like u r the only living thing. I don't just fall in love with anyone, usally i'm a kind of a player, but he got me, BAD. I don't think he goes for guys...
But I don't wanna tell him how I feel and lose him altogether....
Someone help I don't know what to do
I want him but don't wanna lose him
2006-10-09 07:24:46 · 7 answers · asked by Dream@all 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That a real hard one!! i say don't pursue it leave it alone case u don't know if he's gay or not? does he know your gay? well i think u should pretend that you know a guy who is into him and see what he says (about his sexual preference) and if he's into it then tell him you have had a crush on him for a long time!! i would hold off on the falling in love with him thing for now! good luck hope this helped a little! that's a real thinker!
2006-10-09 07:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by finenazfuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all both of your priorities should be toward your children, not each other. You could be doing irreversable damage if you proceed further. You are having an emotional affair, and since neither of you have any responsabilities toward each other it is so easy to live in your everything is perfect fantasy land. You basucally have 2 choices, and lots of potential consequences and fall out. First of all neither of you are in a position to be thinking of each other until your marriages ARE over, and if you are friends with his wife, even if she doesn't appreciate what you refer to as his good qualities, as her friend and out of respect for their children and YOUR chlidren STAY AWAY from him. Now that being said if you both get a divorce, and resolve your own issues from your previous marriages, AND you work out the friendship thing then that might be a differant story. But right now it is wrong and somewhere inside you know that or you wouldn't be asking this question~
2016-03-18 07:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this is what u want to do. You know he is your friend. you should know if he is gay or not. if he is not then dont make a move. because u dont want to loose a a friend. good friends are hard to come by. If he likes guys, and is gay, then go for it. Does he have a girlfriend? take it slow see what happens.
2006-10-09 07:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by elmucki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is a true friend 1st of all if u tell him it shouldnt break up ur friendship...think about how he feels about the guy guy thing cuz sum guys r realy iffy bout that if u know that u r most likely 2loose him as a friend if u tell him then u should leave it alone better 2have him as a friend then nothing at all.
2006-10-09 07:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety if he's not gay then i don see hw it will work...if he's your friend you should know if he goes for guys...and if he does go for guys try to make a move but SLOWLY
2006-10-09 07:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should know if he goes for guys. Then let him know how you feel but also let him know you will respect his response and feelings after that. Hope he falls for u too.
2006-10-09 07:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by dreamlander 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG get a nice girl
2006-10-09 07:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg
2006-10-09 07:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋