I was wondering if anyone females or males thought this activity was gay or is a normal healthy sexual outlet. Me and 4 guys were going to get together this weekend and sit around a couch in the nude and do a circle jerk for fun. For those who dont know that. we were going to all place a picture of our favorite actress/singer to masturbate to and the one who shoots the farthest would win. I picked Jennifer Anniston as my picture. My other friend has Jessica Alba and one guy picked Maria Sharapova. Anyway, is safe and healthy? We arent harming anyone and we all are secure in our sexuality also. Just curious.
2006-10-09 07:23:37 · 17 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sounds g0y
2006-10-09 07:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, it all depends on your point of view... Oddly enough, although the males involved aren't necessarly touching each other, the fact remains you are all males and will be essentially engaging in a solo sexual activity "en masse", which would make this get-together seem "gay" to most.
However, circle-jerks are (apparently) a normal form of activity for "developing" males in their teens up to their early to mid 20s. In fact, some college frats actually have some form of circle-jerks as innitiations!
In my case, I am all for it, although I don't consider it to be "gay" in any way unless the guys start to touch each other....
And to be honest, if I were you guys, I would do it regularly, except instead of each bringing a picture, use B-doll(s) instead, and make the BBB part of your routine:
A picture is worth a thousand words, so a thousand pictures are worth a million words!
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/bbb-01-/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BBB-HJ-03/
Check these (and more in their links) groups about my own favorite and "odd"/different/"weird" masturbation techniques, centering around the B-doll fetish... Don't forget to use lubrication!
Cheers!
2006-10-10 12:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get so hung up on labels...if you guys think it's just good, clean fun and it isn't hurting anyone, what's it matter if it's a little questionable? just don't go around bragging to other people outside your "circle" cuz they might think it's a little queer. i say enjoy, have fun. I do tend to agree with the others though, the whole "gayness" of it kinda depends on age. Over college age, it's kinda gay :)
One more thing...make sure you aren't within shooting range ;)
2006-10-09 14:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by roobs 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on age here. Young or middle teen no. Adult in late 20 or 30s possible.
2006-10-09 14:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares whether or not its 'gay?' Does that particular label change the experience for you in some way? If someone you trusted thought it was 'gay' would that make you feel bad about what you had done? Does it make you feel better and are you more likely to do it again if we all said it wasn't gay?
In my experience, only deeply closeted gay people ask silly questions like this.
2006-10-09 15:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Todd 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is obvious that the dude that chose Maria Sharapova won
2006-10-09 16:41:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it and does not mean you are gay. My only question is if you win, what do u get for your winnngs? A BJ from everyone? LOL
2006-10-09 15:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by Midwest guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is something that is meant to be done ALONE, actually. Umm there's no way in this world I would be caught dead doing that. Besides, one of the guys might be trying to "find themselves"..you never know so yeah just telling you.
EWWW, LOL I just wouldn't do it.
2006-10-09 16:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
a guess not gay but I would say it's close as long as your not touching each other I guess. Is this the thing to do now?
2006-10-09 14:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by K.S. THiS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I guess its normal for guys to explore. but I would have to ask how old the boys are. just be sure you all know what to expect.
2006-10-09 14:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by cc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋