i need help serious answers only?

Question

first off im 16 but dont give me a bunch of bs about this well i just found out that i have a conditoin that will make it so in like to yrs i cant have a baby because it is the start of cervical cancer my mother had the same thing and she kept putting it off to have a histdarectamee so she could have me which nearly killed both of us well if i wait like she did then the longer i wait i ovulate less and less she ovulated 3 times in 15 yrs that makes it like finding a needle in a hay stack to get preg well to the point me and my bf are very stable in our relationship and have been dating for almost 2 yrs and my mom knows what is goin on and she told me its my choice whether or not i decide to have a baby this early to avoid all risks she had and me and my boyfriend have decided to try for a baby when is the best time to get preg plus ive been told by doctors i only ovulate on my period when do we try but avoid doing it on my period plz help no jokes plz

ok i also need to mension i dont want a suragaote mother no future procedures i want a baby of my own through my body b4 i have to have a hisdarectimee i refuse to let this go james is 18 has a good steady job and can support me in the way needed also my mom makes more than enough money and i will be doing home school not quiting school if i wait till i graduat it will be to late my moms was not as bad

Answer 1

all you can do hun is try EVERY OTHER day even on your period. I HOPE AND PRAY this works for you best wishes.

Answer 2

First off, how does the doc know that you only ovulate during your period? Have you been charting? You should chart for at least 3-4 months to get a real fix on your ovulation. Is your menstrual cycle (day 1 of your period until day 1 of your next one) 21 days or less? If not, then you don't O on your period. Do you know how RARE that is? If your cycle is in the28-32 day range, you more likely O somewhere during days 12-18.

Chart a while, figure it out. Something you can try to help reuglate you is to take an herbal remedy called Vitex. It helps to keep your cycle and hormones in check.

I really feel for your condition. Good luck in whatever you decide!

Answer 3

You should talk with your doctor about getting pregnant at 16. Also, there are procedures that can be done to get rid of the pre-cancerous cells on your cervix before it becomes cervical cancer. If I were you I would do everything I could to get the pre cancer cells removed and not worry about getting pregnant right away. I am wondering how old your boyfriend is, too. I'm not trying to dis you, but 16 is too young to get yourself tied down to a baby by choice. You should be going to school dances, participating in sports at school and enjoying your teen years, not making such adult decisions at a young age. I had my first baby at 19, and I had no idea what i was getting myself into. Think this through before you do it. It is a lifelong decision...

Answer 4

I think you and your boyfriend should step back for a moment and consider all other options available to you. Have you considered having eggs frozen for later in life for a surrogate? The possibility of adopting a baby later in life? I think before you try anymore for a baby you, your boyfriend, and maybe your mom or another trusted adult should really make an appointment with someone that can discuss ALL options avilable to you for having a child later.

Having a child at 16 makes for a very tough life. You will need a lot of help and assistance, and you are not done with your education yet making it difficult to find a decent paying job.

I strongly urge you to look at other options and make a truly informed decision before going any further.

Good luck!

Answer 5

By posting your question here, you are exposing yourself to BS because you are asking us what we think. While i am not judging you, i do think that science is evolving and in the future it might be easier to conceive. You are 16. Are you ready to bring a child into this world on a "what if" condition? If your mom was able to do it maybe so will you. It is ultimately your choice. However, if i were you i would finish your education (which you need) and then think about having babies. It is ridiculous to have a baby just because you think you won't be able to have one in the future. Good Luck.

Answer 6

Serious answer?
Statutory Rape.
Can't get much more serious than that.
If anybody in your personal circle objects to this (teacher, friend's parent, another family member, etc...) then you and your baby will be alone, while your 18 year old boyfriend spends time in jail.
I don't think waiting 2 years will be a matter of life and death.

Answer 7

I had my son at 16 and I'm still with his baby's father. You are very young though and just make sure that this is really what you BOTH want. Also, make sure his parents are ok with it, that way you'll have lots of help from both sides of ya'lls family. Hope this helps. Good luck!

Answer 8

Do it right before your period is about to come down. If you are still in high-school, I'd wait until I graduate.

Answer 9

go for it, i will tell you that for me
I seem to be able to get preg when I just have sex everyday after my P but you say that the doc say that you ovulated on your p
if that the case you will need to have sex at that time
Good Luck

Answer 10

it is not us to judge, you do what you feel is rite, but whatever you do, pray about it, that always works for me, the lord knowes what is rite for you. good luck in what ever happens, and know that God is with you.