Ive been talking to this guy since i was a freshman in high school. I really like him he says he like me to. But its this girl in the picture. I have no problem with him liking other girls are girls liking him. But this girl she is just plain nasty, she says she pregant, she known around our school not in a good way. She has a boyfriend already she someone that you would not want to date. But well the guy i like he likes her i think he picking her over me and i dont know why. He knows how i feel about him. One day he's all mines than the next he her's. My feelings are strong so i told him that if i couldnt be his girl i didnt wanna talk to him anymore. That didnt last long cause we back talking. But i just dont know if i should leave him alone to have her. Are to try and work this out cause my feelings? He so confusing and im so confused about this. I dont want to make a mistake and waste my time on him. Should i go with someone who wants me? Are try to get him? Please help me out! :(
2006-10-09 06:36:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like he is a player. You know what that is i'm sure. If he can;t make up his mind then leave him be. If you want him to want you, then pay no attention to him. Let him be, flirt with other guys and maybe even have one of your guys friends start acting like u two are talking and that might make him jealous and you'll really tell if he likes you or not. I hate to see any girl get played cause I have been there to many time to count and damn does it suck especially if you have strong feeling for him. Do that and trust me the signs he puts off will give you your answer. If not leave him be and move on it sounds like your better than him anyways... always remember sweetie there are always gonna be more fish in the sea!!! Good Luck!
2006-10-09 06:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kasie Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tell you that you cannot like two people at the same time. They are wrong. We have this thing called physical pleasure and chemical pleasure.
Physical has to do with how you feel about someones physical appearance. This type has to do with the person that you imagine yourself to be. Chemical is the attraction that you cannot describe. This type has to do with the person that everyone knows you to be.
The both of you are satisfying either side of him.
If you think that he is really worth it not to mention that he likes you deep down then you have to remind him of why he started to like you in the first. If you think however that his feelings for you are only skin deep, then you have to move on love.
2006-10-09 13:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends w/ him, but don't date him. He is playing you. You're only his until the next girl pops up, he keeps going back & forth. He knows you'll allow him to do this, so he does it. If he really wanted to be w/ you, he would, but he doesn't. Quit trying to "fight" over him. Keep in touch, but only as friends, and I don't mean friends w/ benefits. Don't give him an ultimatium, guys hate that, he'll deside on his own. Keep your eyes open for other guys. You're just setting yourself up for failure w/ him, move on, don't wait around all year for this guy, you're just wasting your time, find some other guy to be your bf.
2006-10-09 13:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by tanner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Lifes too short. And if you are still in high school, he will not be the last love you ever have! Trust me
Trust this....If he wanted to be with you, he would
2006-10-09 13:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with someone who likes someone else.
You deserve better. And just think of the nasty diseases this girl has probably given him. Do you want all that drama?
Didn't think so!
2006-10-09 13:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are attracted to girls who appear unavailable. If he knows that you're just waiting around for him, then there's no rush, he's not worried about losing his chance with you. Forget about him, and move on
2006-10-09 13:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are after someone who is after another.funny...the point is you are wasting your time.please hold your peace and move on you will meet someone whom you will both feel same way towards each other.
2006-10-09 13:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he likes you, he would've dumped her by now...but you should definitely scope out some other hotties while you are waiting for him to make his move...if he doesn't, he is not worth your time...forget about his sorry *** and ditch and take life to its fullest!!!
2006-10-09 13:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by hawaiigrl33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother about this slimy guy. i think u will get lots of BFs. enjoy ur life. its better to dump him then he dumping you. best of luck
gautam
2006-10-09 13:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by GAUTAM S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-10-09 13:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by fayem7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋