okay so heres the deal. i had a boyfriend, but we broke up right after our 7 months. and then there is this kid on my bus [Dan] that i have always had a strong connection with, and now that i know me and my ex are completly done i was definitly gonna go for this kid on my bus. but then all of a sudden out of random, one of my really good friend [joey] asked me out. now joey and me always like flirt with eachother joking around kind of thing. and i never thought he was going to ask me out. but if i didnt feel a little bit attracted to him then i would automatically say no. and if Dan wasnt in the picture then i would say yes. what do i do. i see dan on the bus [and he goes to a different school] and we have a really strong connection, and joey i see in school, joey i might have a better relationship with, ive gone out with him before and this time i think he's really gonna try to make it work,but if i went out with him i feel bad that i keep taking this chance away from him.
2006-10-09 06:29:12 · 3 answers · asked by yourrad_letsmakeout♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and when i say i keep taking this chance away from dan, its because when me and my ex boyfriend kept breaking up, me and dan became closer, but then i would end up going out with my ex again .. so i've become really close to him this year and i want to give him a chance, but i kinda have a feeling me and joey might work .. =\ so please help me!!
2006-10-09 06:31:45 · update #1
it sounds like you need to get your priorities straight. dont go out with someone you have already been with. if it didnt work the first time it most likely wont work the second. dont take a chance away from someone or yourself. you've been with joey already. try dan. it seems like you've played with his heart alot. nobody likes having their heart played with. but make sure you leave yourself plenty of time to chill with your girls and spend time with your family, and also to get over your ex.
2006-10-09 07:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go with Dan a deeper connection can always go farther than just liking and flirting. he going to a nother school can also have many benefits.
2006-10-09 14:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by ajm_jr_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then go with joey
2006-10-09 06:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by The Invisible Woman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋