well Everything that i do i hate everyday i go to college and school and then do homework and take a shower and i hate doing every last one of these things. but when i say man i hate this someone says well thats part of life you have to do it. is this true? do i really have to. if i were to stop would i be a failure? help please
2006-10-09 06:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by raul b 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
i meant and work, not, and school
2006-10-09 06:20:20 · update #1
You just need a brake from the rut you have cut for yourself. Take a long weekend and go somewhere you have never been before.by car, plane, train or whatever transportation you have available. Don't take any work with you or homework or anyone you know. Just go and do nothing for three days. Do take a good book and a transistor radio. Listen to the local stations. Read your book. You just need a good mind flush (wipe the disc clean) and then come back to your routine rut. The rut is necessary for survival but you can escape it occasionally. Always seek something better. (create a new rut) Do the getaway every 180 days minimum for your sanity and peace of mind. Every 90 days if it gets too pressing.
Good luck
2006-10-09 06:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by BP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You do have to actually do those things, because I'm guessing you do not hate having food to eat, clothes to wear, a place to live, perhaps a car to drive.....? Since those things don't just happen on their own, you have to do the things you hate, like getting up in the morning, showering, going to school, doing homework, going to work, etc. to get to enjoy the things you like.
And please, whether you hate it or not, for the sake of the rest of humanity, take a shower every day.
2006-10-09 06:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have wondered the same thing. if i were to sell my house, car, tv, computer, and everything else for that matter, how long could i live on the beach in some tropical locale selling stupid crap to stupid tourists. it sounds like it would be a much more enjoyable, low stress life, but i think i would miss my stuff. in the long run, get a good job so that you can retire early,and at least enjoy the last 20 some years of you life
2006-10-09 06:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by forjj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice of your own ,usely things that you hate be the best thing for you. But if you don't want to you don't have to, but you will be a failure. And it might cause low self asteame, but ask yourself what you don't hate and vairefy would that make you a failure and if your life would be he same. 9 out of10 it won't.
2006-10-09 06:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to do anything,lots of people dont go to work or school or take showers im sure you see them on the streets all the time,you wanna be like them or do you want nice stuff,a home,food and things like that,you need to grow up and try to enjoy yourself no matter where you are or what your doing
2006-10-09 06:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by mrsannman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to do anything. How can you hate taking a shower?
2006-10-09 06:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by 1,1,2,3,3,4, 5,5,6,6,6, 8,8,8,10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the catcher in the rye, you sound like holden caulfield, just quit being a hater and start looking for the good in things, it can really be as easy as that
2006-10-09 06:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by ninja cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you quit, you have to determine what you want to do. You will be a failure if you just do nothing.
2006-10-09 06:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just stuck in a rut. I get like that sometimes. try to mix it up. take up something that interests you and that you have never done before. that should help you to overcome this feeling of repetition.
2006-10-09 06:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by inspire2318 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple! Just tell yourself you hate this enough to stop!
2006-10-09 09:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋