she is 21 and always on the net, she doesn't say what she is doing and when i ask she has a go! before she met me she was basically a tart she would stayout all night with her mate friend!! as she called them! we have been together 5 years but three years ago she cheated on my with some1 i used to know from school now we have moved near where his mum lives, is she cheating or am i just paranoid.
2006-10-09 06:09:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry my name is mark i'm her kitty_b17 boyfriend and i'm signed in as her as she is at work,
2006-10-09 06:13:34 · update #1
just because she is chatting on the net doesnt mean she is cheating on u. Although, if she is chatting to people it could lead to something more. Its sound like u dont trust her and sounds like she doesnt want u 2 know what or who she is talking too on the net. i suggest that u try and talk to her. Without trust in a relationship u cant really be happy. Good luck and hope u sort things out.
2006-10-09 06:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi im sorry but she is probably cheating on you. It sounds like she is being secretive for some reason. I knew a woman once who use to talk to guys on the internet and when her partener at the time used to ask her she used to have a go. Then when they spilt up she met up with a few guys off the internet. They dont seem to care what trouble they could get into. If she had a reputation for being a tart then she will always be one.And if she has cheated on you before then she will do it over and over again as long as you dont find out. I think you should find someone that will treat you right i know it will be hard for you as you have been going out for 5 years, but you need trust in a relationship but obviously you havent got trust. Try and find her out or coller about it. If you are on the computer you can tell what sites a person has been on click the address bar down. I hope you sort it out and i would be best to find someone else.
Check out the questions she has asked in her profile then you will get the answer you are looking. for im so sorry.
2006-10-09 07:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is sit and talk with her if you feel that she is being evasive or lying ask her if she thinks it's better to end this relationship and that way you can move on with your life and put this behind you.
2006-10-09 06:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by sharon s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your gut telling you? Listen to it! If you have that pit in your tummy then I think you know what is going on....you could ask her but she may lie. You could follow her but that will just make you crazy...trust me! :) Cheaters rarely change and that is what blows! Trust is the most precious gift to give to someone and yet it is so easily broken. Ask her. BUT always always follow you gut instinct!
2006-10-09 06:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by MaHaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course cheating. Find someone else
2006-10-09 06:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by bucksolutions1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello. maybe your girlfriend is not the one for you. I mean she has cheated on you once. whats to say she wont do it again? but if you really love her, try talking to her. sometimes it could be our fault that our loved ones are giving us the cold shoulder.
2006-10-09 06:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by kartsri88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cheating on you. Learn to live with it or dump the transvestite at the diner.
2006-10-09 06:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel and im sorry to say shes probly cheating on u
2006-10-09 06:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is going to do that ,they will do it anyway,no matter where or when.If she done that to you, you have to let it go or get out.No one can tell you what to do,but I would cut my losses and start again ,cause its hard to let it go and festers.
2006-10-09 06:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by paul t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she's going to know exactly what you think when she checks out her Q&As (top right green box) tonight. Prepare yourself.....
2006-10-09 06:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by crosbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋