Well i've been best friend's with this girl ever since the 5th grade, so we really know each other, then one year she had the hugest crush on this one guy for almost 2 years, and she was already thinking she was in love. Well the beging of this year she got over him and moved on, and now im starting to like him, and i hear that he is too. But i don't feel right if i go out with because i know the way she used to feel for him and i know that he liked her too back then. And to make it even worse i've been going out with this other guy for a while "just as friends" and he likes me and we always go out and have fun, but he's not the one i have feelings for. What should i do???
2006-10-09 06:08:40 · 5 answers · asked by NAT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is a rule my friends follow, and it would be good for you... go out with whoever you like, but never ever go out with a friend's man, present or former. Too many emotions get in the way. you are already agonizing, and you're not even with him. Best leave him be. Don't risk losing your friendship.
since you have no feelings for the man you are currently seeing, well, try to give him a chance. If you find yourself unable to do so, perhaps a clean break is best.
2006-10-09 06:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Balaboo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with the person that you had feeling for about 2 year and break up with the other boy. and plus if you know the person aready you will know what he will do or not in haed of time .
2006-10-09 06:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by mz.bowwow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are hard to find - lovers come & go - don't rock the boat with your friend and find another guy
2006-10-09 06:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are such good friends with this other girl, talk to her about it. See if she would have a problem with you going out with her ex. Easy fix.
2006-10-09 06:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by valarie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DON'T GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILIES EX'S. ASK YOUR FRIEND WHAT SHE THINKS, IF SHE IS YOUR TRUE FRIEND SHE WILL TELL YOU THE TRUTH WITH OUT BAD FEELINGS.
2006-10-09 06:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋