Why do women fall back in love with an ex boyfriend even after finding someone new?

Question

Is it true love or is it because they see there ex has changed and they wont to work on the relationship again. Why do this happen

Answer 1

the feelings come back u cant stop ur feelins from feeling what they feel

Answer 2

The grass is always greener.... Plus, it's easy to remember the good times, and not the reasons you broke up in the first place. Leopards don't change their spots darlin'.

It's also a challenge when your ex sees you with someone else. They don't really want you, but they don't want anyone else to have you either. Depending on the reason you broke up in the first place, I would think long and hard before seriously entertaining the idea of getting back with the ex.

Good luck :)

Answer 3

I think it's because you always think back to how happy you used to be and your mind tries to forget about sad and upsetting things in order to get over them. so if the feelings come back and you want to give things a second try then why not. but be careful as there is always a reason for breaking up in the first place. think before you go back and then find it harder to leave the second time around. because it will be harder.

i split up with my boyfriend last year - well to be more specific "he left me" i was so hurt and bitter about it as he wouldn't give me a second chance. but i still loved him to pieces and couldn't even contemplate another relationship coz he was always on my mind. i met up with a new guy a few times but i made endless comparrisons to my ex and found it hard to move on. i cried and i got angry and resentful towards my ex and vowed i would NEVER take him back becuase of all the emotional pain he'd put me through. He never did give me a straight answer on whether or not it was over for good or just over for now! But i didn't want to play the waiting game and it was effecting my chances of a new relationship.

then a few days into the new year (this year) my ex contacted me. to start with he wanted to just be my friend. which i knew would be difficult because i still had feelings for him. although it was hard i decided to meet up with him once - just to see IF i could be his friend - then i saw him sat there....i took one look at him and fell for him again. exactly like the first time we'd met.

Although i'll never forget the pain i went through when he left me i could remember his good and bad sides so i had to get to know him again, to see if perhaps he had changed. we took things slowly and although we are back together again now it's been quite a struggle. i moved in with him after 3 months of friendship and getting back on track. but we argued most of the time, so i moved out again and it was as good as over forever. But we spoke a lot about our relationship and where it was going wrong again. we both had to make changes or it would never work! Well the only things that made us try one more time was the reason that neither of us wanted to break up...and the fact we still really loved each other.

if you know somethings bad and it's not working out then it's easier to let go. if you still have some possitive feelings, no matter how small, then they will always get in the way of making a clear decision. but it goes without saying if you break up with someone twice then there's no Third Time Lucky, you should just accept it and move on as it is possible to be in love with somebody and not be compatible for one another.

Follow your heart - not your head.

I listened to one song that always cleared things up for me - Fighter by Christina Aguilera. It made me strong enough to cope.

Answer 4

most of the time some women can get really jelouse when they see other women living the life they once had so there for they will want it back and most of them will do anything to get it back

Answer 5

because they were never really over him in the first place and had no business getting into another relationship