My wife are under alot of stress but we fight alot...we are both full time students. i have noticed that she dosent give me the attention she used to and when she needs help with a question or something she will ask other people and not me? I am getting kind of jealous but I know I shouldent be, or should I???
2006-10-09 05:29:08 · 17 answers · asked by bungalo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-10-09 05:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by mayso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice, not a feeling. Choose to love your wife! Choosing to love means fulfilling those marriage vows you made with her. Love overlooks wrongs... is patient and kind... believes the best about someome...
The Message Bible puts it this way: ( 1 Cor 13)
Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn't want what it doesn't have.
Love doesn't strut,
Doesn't have a swelled head,
Doesn't force itself on others,
Isn't always "me first,"
Doesn't fly off the handle,
Doesn't keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn't revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.
Love never dies.
As soon ans you both get a break from classes and tests, take some time for each other and renew your love for each other. Tell her... touch her... and do it every day...no matter how you feel. Be sincere. You need a little romance in your lives.
2006-10-09 12:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by rejoiceinthelord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her breathe a little bit. You both are under a lot of pressure with school. Sometimes women just need space to breathe a bit away from their partner. This doesn't mean she doesn't love you. When people get into relationship they get comfortable and just b/c she doesn't give you all the attention she used to at the beginning of the relationship doesn't mean she doesn't care either. It just means you two have busy lives. Maybe plan a special evening out to reconnect and relight the passion. Something she is not expecting. It doesn't have to be expensive either, be creative. Good luck.
2006-10-09 12:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by aquagirl125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a break. Tell her that you want to feel that closeness again and you miss it! Being full time students must be really hard on you both, Try your very best to get along and don't be jealous just because she asks someone else a question! Hang on and keep your love!
2006-10-09 12:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. School can put people under a lot of stress, and maybe she thinks that the person she ask the questions may better be able to answer the question. That answer is based on the info you gave. Maybe if i had more info i could make a better decision.
2006-10-09 12:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a positive attitude...things will get better. You both are going through alot so you need to be patient. Try not to be jealous, just let her know that you would like to help her out when she needs it. Most of all, reassure her that you love her. That is really important!.
2006-10-09 12:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together, do you trust her? Stress can really put a damper on a relationship. Maybe you should do something nice for her...surprise her w/a romantic, stress free evening...if she still acts distant then you may have a problem.
You could even just try talking to her about it...it may be something very simple and easy to fix.
Good luck!!
2006-10-09 12:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by gdsgfsd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just spending a little bit more time away from each other when you are stressed will soothe your problems a little. Instead of studying at home, study at the library every once and awhile so you won't be at each other's throats.
2006-10-09 13:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting--it is important to fight fairly--that means no abusive words, stay focused and to the point...and get to the truth of the real issues. Rarely is it really the little things that cause fights--it is the big issues between you...You two have to figure those out by talking, compromising, give and take. (MY personal favorite phrase-----LIFE is based on give & take..)
2006-10-09 12:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Polly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need a date night. Try setting up a evening where candle light dinner is there... and then just the 2 of you alone.
2006-10-09 12:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋