I feel useless when I am not around, but I think he may feel crowded when I am. I dont want to be an instant reminder of (oh and I at some point have to deal with that) I just want to be there for him. He made some comments about not being a good boyfriend and not knowing if he wants to be in a relationship...how far do I back off? Does he not want this relationship anymore? What do I do? Help someone
2006-10-09 05:13:26 · 2 answers · asked by mwalsh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THIS IS A TIME OF GRIEF I UNDERSTAND WHERE HES COMING FROM HE HAS LOSSED A LOVED ONE AND FEEL THAT HE SHOULD LET EVERYTHING GO JUST GIVE HIM HIS SPACE AND IT WILL ALL COME BACK TOGETHER. HE FEEL THAT SINCE HE LOSSED HIS BROTHER HE HAS LOSSED EVERYTHING JUST TRY TO COMFORT HIM AND TELL HIM THAT HIS BROTHER IS ALRIGHT AND HE DON'T WANT HIM TO WORRY ABOUT HIM AND TO LIVE HIS LIFE TO THE FULLEST. STAY STRONG AND KEEP GOD FIRST.
2006-10-09 05:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by andreamcklvy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just needs his space..Just constantly assure him that you love him and anytime he needs a friend to talk to, your there for him :-)
2006-10-09 12:17:33 · answer #2 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋