There's this guy in school, he was in my class last year! As dumb as i was i went out with him, he's a year older then me! anyway, he broke up with me because he didn't like my parents and he also cause i'm ugly! And because of that we're not even friends. My friend told me different stuff that he has been saying about me, she told me that he called me ugly and he said that he s brown eyes, i have brown eyes, he really deeply hurt me. He sent me a messages telling me different stuff. he told me to watch my back, he called me a , ugly, and he told me that he's gonna get a bunch of people after me and now i don't know what to do. I'm scared, teachers won't help, my parents wont help. This guy told me before that he was going to kill a little kid, i stopped him right there. Now i'm scared cause he said that he's gonna get a bunch of people after me. he's in 2 of my classes in school, and in both classes he stares at me with evil eyes. If anyone would like to help then thanks!
2006-10-09 05:09:38 · 9 answers · asked by Kayla B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Something is wrong with this guy. File a restraining order...he's nuts!!!! Call the police since no one else will help you.
2006-10-09 05:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney'sMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all try figure out if he is serious. He might be just saying that to impress his friends. But if you think there is any absolutely any possibility that he is serious, take action. Trust your gut. If you think that he might be serious, even if you have little or no evidence, act. Talk to your parents again and inform them that you think you are in serious danger. Tell your teachers about what he said. It is their legal responsibility to take action. Contact the police and inform them of your worries. The police take threats of violence very seriously. Tell your friends that if you turn up dead, he did it so if he does something the police would have him as their first suspect. Take self defence class. Walk with friends. And if he wants to see you alone for what ever reason, don't go. If he wants to apologize, don't let him do it in private. It might be a ploy. If he ever follows you home or follows you to a friend house or in any way stalks you call the police and get a restraining order. It might save your life.
2006-10-12 06:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his attitude changed dramatically after he saw your parents, it's possible that he was offended somehow. That doesn't necessarily mean there's a good reason for it. I think the main thing to consider is his general conduct before he met you, or his behaviour with others while he was with you. if he behaved improperly in these instances, it's likely his own problem, and it really doesn't have any direct relation to you. What is his background compared to yours and your parents? Is there a class difference? What is his relationship with his own family - is it dysfuncyional, and does this cause him to resent you? There could be many different explanations.
2006-10-09 05:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would he call you ugly and go out with you? Tell the guidance counselor or file a report against him. Next time he stares, look him straight in the eye and dont look afraid. He probably just wants to play with your mind because your allowing him. If you give him that power. of course he will take advantage.
2006-10-09 05:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy wants to push your buttons and intimidate you. The best thing that you can do is ignore him, or even better yet laugh at him. Obviously he has a self-esteem issue (which you may want to point out to him) and needs to make you feel bad in order to make himself feel good.
2006-10-09 05:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a report do something. Take a defense class
2006-10-09 05:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by karren b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok u may not have as much courage(i also dont have a lot of commmen sence haha) but if that was my prob id go up to him in person and say aWUT THE **** IS UR PROBLEM STOP ****** BASICALLY STALKING ME. **** UR THE ONE HOO CALLED ME UGLY SO U ARE MAKING A PROB FOR UR SELF.... and tell him that ur going to the police.. heel get the **** scared out of him.. guys even jerky ones dont liek to see girl get so mad that they sware
2006-10-09 05:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by unless_you_can_save_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully he's just being a @sshole!
Keep the messages that's he's sending & show them to your parents & teachers. They'll do something if you have evidence.
2006-10-09 05:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare back, tell him he's a jerk. He likes you being scared of him. Don't show fear,or weakness.
2006-10-09 05:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by Witchy Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋