one of my friends..has been on and off with her BF...a lot.
and their both so so in the head.
recently she cheated on him.
with her ex.
she said she likes him, but LOVES her now bf.
her bf is psycho. if he ever found out he'd kill her and the ex bf.
shes scared, cuz a few days ago over myspace he found a message she wrote him..and he began to question it.
and she was scared but blew it off saying it was nothing...just a friend message.
should she tell him? even though he might...u know? kill her..
or do sometihng drastic?
2006-10-09 04:58:28 · 13 answers · asked by AWESOMA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, is it really that bad, or are you exaggerating a little bit? If it is that bad, don't tell the bf. The first thing you should do is tell her parents, the police, someone who can do something about it. If he's hurting her, or if he is capable of it at all, someone has to know. If you're really her friend, you'll do something about it. A friend doesn't let a friend stay in an abusive relationship. Tell someone.
2006-10-09 05:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Inya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was your husband, mabe yes, but a boyfriend...I don't think that he needs to know. But if he ask to be your husband. Then tell him befor you get married. You have to have trust in every relationship. Ane it seems like this person isn't trust worthy. If you really love a person, you wouldn't do the sleeping around.
Peace :-)
2006-10-09 12:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by fthsunshine@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she stay in a relationship with a whack job and why would she play around with an ex knowing that her whack job might not like it too much? SHE has issues.
2006-10-09 12:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break up with the bf - no explanation needed
See a shrink and get her head on straight
2006-10-09 12:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loved him, then why would she cheat on him? that's just wrong in itself, plus she is stupid to cheat on a psycho. evidently she isn't too concerned with the bf. she does need to get away from him though if he's gonna kill her. seh doesn't want to die does she?
2006-10-09 12:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm if she is afraid he will literally hurt her and the other guy then why is she with him? sorry but wow some girls dont think do they? **sigh** its sad these days.....
anyways she should end the relationship she is in now as there is no need for cheating and he should know..............but make sure she goes somewhere safe
2006-10-09 12:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Nikki*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is so psycho just break it off and start fresh.
2006-10-09 12:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she should break off the relationship and stay away from him,
2006-10-09 12:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no thats why itscalled cheating!
2006-10-09 12:01:47 · answer #9 · answered by lisette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would she consider telling him if he gets that nuts? No point in it...
2006-10-09 12:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋