but having girlfriends is fine? 3 somes? and others..?
how about having 2nd wife with a respect of her marriage right and treat both wives equally. why can't we understand that men and women are both mentally, emotionally and physically different?
what if i don't want to divorce my 1st wife, and need a 2nd wife. i can still love them both equally.
what do you think?
2006-10-09 04:56:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly sounds great from a Man's point of view! haha - I can hear all the women hating me now. But, allow me to continue before I get lynched!
A man has to love a woman and that doesn't mean one-way love. Yes, you can love 10 women. But, to REALLY LOVE a woman you need her to love you. That love is not going to come in the form of her accepting you having a 2nd wife! You can tell her till you are blue in the face that you won't love her any less. But, imagine in her eyes what she is thinking when you are making love to another woman! She cannot be thinking you love her!!! Especially at that moment.
You see marriage is supposed to be about a 2 way relationship and you respecting others wants.
Now, on the otherhand if she wanted a 2nd husband and you a 2nd wife and you were both ok with it, I see no problem with it (I personally think it is sick, but whatever). :)
Good luck!
2006-10-09 05:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Ultimate Nerd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time your in Las Vegas rent a car and drive north on I-15 take Utah exit 15 -rt 9 into Hurricane
when you reach the end of town make a right on S.Main St
go down a block or two and make a left on rt 59 or it may be labeled rt100/59
either way proceed up the 10% grade and about 22 miles after it levels off you will reach the UT/AZ state line. The two towns abutting that line are Hilldale UT and Colorado City AZ aka The Polygamy Capital of America.
Stop your car ,get out and ask the men what having multiple wives is really like. Assure them that you are not a cop or a reporter, just a seeker of knowledge. You make get some interesting answers. You may even live to tell the tale.
Be careful out there,
2006-10-09 06:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your Frikin Mind!? Two wives! Okay do the math....First off Shoes X2, Dresses X2, Food X2, You being told you never listen X2, I NEED Romance X2, Not tonight I have a headache X2, You dont understand me X2, PMS X2, I want a divorce X2 The list goes on and on lol
Just be happy with the X1 you have now *S*
2006-10-09 05:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One wife is MORE than enough for me. You know that line... "Mo' Money, Mo' Problems"?? Well, more wives will lead to more problems. Just watch the series Big Love on HBO. Yeah, there's alot of love and alot of sex, but MY GOD does he have alot of problems!! 3 mortgages, 3 sets of children, 3 b!tchy wives...lol...
Give up this 2-wife fantasy and come back to the real world...
2006-10-09 05:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by BigDanInTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a moral issue that politicians feel the need to make laws against, regardless of the constant immoralities they commit. If anyone feels this strongly and has the need to have more than 1 woman in thier life, why get married at all?
2006-10-09 04:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that might be good for u but not me. i mean fine u let him have two then he's gonna want 3 then 4 then 5 etc.. some men won't stop because they'll get used to it. plus y r u married if u want all these lovers, your mostly using them for sex. i just think that's bullshit, loving two or more people equally.
2006-10-09 05:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because having just one woman will bring a man to the brink of insanity, society can't withstand the kind of madness that would be generated if a man was stupid enough to committ to two woman at one time.
2006-10-09 05:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what country and what religion you are. Islamic living in the far east... OK... But in the US... no way...illegal. Christian? No way! Sounds like you have a selfishness problem to me. Grow up.
2006-10-09 05:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by rejoiceinthelord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, It sucks doesn't it... If I had my way I would have five wives...
(1) African American
(2) Caucasian
(3) Middle eastern
(4) Asian
(5) Hispanic
... and they would all be bi-sexual and live under one roof.
2006-10-09 05:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is immoral and disgusting. How can you say you would love them equally? How would you feel if your wife decided to take another partner also? That is barbaric behavior.
2006-10-09 05:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by perrisgal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋