Im 17 and my boyfriend is 18. He has been my boyfriend for 2 years now and he is completly obsessed with sex. I mean we have sex all the time and when I don't feel up to it he gets so mad right away and says that he is so sick of me never wanting to do it, when we just did it the night before. I don't know how much of this i can take, because our relationship isn't the greatest. We fight probably about 80% of the time. I'm scared to end things with him because if I do, I know he will find someone else and that will kill me. Please help me!
2006-10-09 04:51:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look honey, you're a person NOT a sex toy. Painful or not, you need to end it with this jerk and find someone that treats you better than this. Sex has it's place, yes, but if that's what's holding the relationship together, than you don't have much of a relationship anyway, do you?
2006-10-09 04:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by justfeelingfroggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he is just immature, and time should mellow him out, in the mean time should you be his sexual prisoner? his slave?
No, you shouldn't, you need to have a talk with him and impress upon him that his behavior is hurtful, and if he is mature enough to have sex then he should be mature enough to have a discussion about it. If he isn't then he isn't mature enough for sex, or for you.
As far as being afraid of losing him, I ask you what you would be losing out on? the 80% of the time you spend fighting? or the 10 % of the time you spend having sex when you don't want to?
You should NEVER have sex with anybody if you don't want it. And if your boyfriend and any damn brains at all he would agree whole-heartidly with that statement who wants to have sex with sombody who doesn't want it?
It is like jerking off but more vulgar, he needs to grow up and you need to stand up for yourself.
If he can't handle it then this I SWEAR to you. There are 3 BILLION men on the planet earth, there are literally MILLIONS who would love you and treat you with dignity and respect, please don't settle for anything less. You are a woman of value, make him treat you as such, don't let him disrespect you this way.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
2006-10-09 11:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he thinks alot about himself . And thinks too much witht he other head.
2006-10-09 11:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by cruisingalong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋