I have a serious crush on a male friend of mine. I have known him almost my entire life. I find myself thinking about him all the time, and wondering what it would be like to kiss him, and to "be with" him. We never got together, and I sometimes wonder why. Problem : I am married to a wonderful man. And I would never cheat on him, so what should I do?
2006-10-09 04:36:45 · 7 answers · asked by nycgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do indeed keep this as a fantisy, nothing more. I love my husband very deeply, and would NEVER think of cheating on him. and my friend knows this. We have been friends for 22 years ( we are 28 now), and it would just never happen, he looks at me like a sister...........not a lover.....
2006-10-09 04:54:30 · update #1
I never inted to cheat on him, it is a fantisy people........... THAT IS ALL> It just seems sometimes that it is more real then anything else.
2006-10-09 05:20:46 · update #2
You must not see this as anything other than a fantasy crush.
Recognize that and there will be no problems.
2006-10-09 04:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Problem : I am married to a wonderful man. And I would never cheat on him, so what should I do?"
Well...if you are married to a wonderful man and you claim you would never cheat on him... Why in the *H*E*L*L* are you even asking this question?! Obviously you are CONSIDERING cheating on him if you like this other guy.
You either need to stop thinking about this other guy or you need to get out of your marriage to this wonderful man. I mean what happens if this other guy doesn't feel the same way about you? You will have ruined a great marriage. Think about that before you think about this other guy.
I feel sorry for your husband. Shame on you.
2006-10-09 11:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by BigDanInTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either committ to your marriage and stop lusting over another man or get a divorce. You have built up a fantasy in your head. Stop all contact with this man or you are easy bait.
Your husband obviously is not meeting your needs. If you stay together get marriage counseling.
2006-10-09 11:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to evaluate your marriage w/ your husband....What's missing or wrong in your relationship. Secondly, if your asking what you should do you probably have more feelings for this friend than you think.
Definitely DO NOT CHEAT! If your unhappy in your marriage then you need to talk it out w/ your husband and figure out whats best for you all.
Until then keep away from any temptation.....which means your friend.
2006-10-09 11:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by Princess T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it as it is....a fantasy...Never go through life thinking the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.
2006-10-09 11:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat you will find what goes around comes around and will find yourself alone, Dont expect that you will live happily ever after
2006-10-09 11:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by alig8or_1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP, YOU MADE A COMMITMENT TO YOUR HUSBAND. IF YOU WANT THE OTHER MAN, GET A DIVORCE AND QUITE LEADING YOUR HUSBAND ON.
NEVER START A RELATIONSHIP UNTIL YOU COMPLETE THE ONE YOU ARE IN.
2006-10-09 11:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋