2006-10-09 04:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by luv2xlr8_75 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Iam not happy with my boyfriend and have not been for sometime now. This other guy makes me laugh and smile something I dont have with my boyfriend. I asked him to leave but he wont he says he wants to work on things. There is nothing left for me to work on I am tottaly drained. I need change and I would like to know how to get thru to him that I dont want him anymore without him acting stupid. Please help any feedback would be great or anyone to talk to
2006-10-09 04:25:12 · update #1
Don't forget that everything is always good at first when you meet someone new. They have to try to win you over so he will try extra hard to give you those feelings you are experiencing. Don't give up on love that someone already has for you when you could be getting yourself into the same thing with this new guy. I found that if I can make myself happy than I don't need a man to give me those good feeling because I give them to myself. Good luck sweet heart. You heart will tell you what is right for you.
2006-10-09 04:39:01 · answer #1 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dear, tell him you're needing to move on, and be sure to tell him WHY. Obviously you've got something with this new guy you don't have with your boyfriend - tell him the difference. I'm not saying that you should tell your boyfriend you're leaving him for another guy, I'm suggesting you let him know what's lacking in y'alls relationship. You don't have to be mean about it, but be honest. Simply say it's not going anywhere and that you're no longer interested.
2006-10-09 04:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ma'êšeeonáhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just be open with him about it. you don't need to tell him that you have been talking to someone else that you are now interested in this other guy. all you need to tell him is that your feelings for him have changed and that you no longer want to be in a relationship with him. what ever you do don't say we can still be friends. that's annoying!! good luck!
2006-10-09 04:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a guy you've just been talking to? I don't know your situation so I cant really say, but be sure about your decision before you make it.
2006-10-09 04:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend that you have met someone who really flips your trigger. You need freedom!
2006-10-09 04:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know that it's not like you dont care about him or anything but you're just not happy and you would really just rather be on your own
2006-10-09 04:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you found someone else be honest
2006-10-09 04:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by SouthernGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW DYSFUNCTIONAL, DID YOUR MOTHER TEACH YOU THIS BEHAVIOR?
DO YOU NOT KNOW HOW TO HAVE A FUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP??????
MAYBE YOU SHOULD DO ALITTLE RESEARCH.
2006-10-09 04:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him read this thread.....
2006-10-09 04:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by WHY2KONE WS6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh? tell him....duh? How else will he know?
2006-10-09 04:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋