Today during break, it was really occward. We werent really talking, he was trying to talk to me and say he was sorry but i still feel like i cant trust him, i dont want to get on the subject of what happened, but i dont know how to get things to stop feeling so occward.
2006-10-09 04:13:25 · 6 answers · asked by AskingAlexandria_91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well honey that feeling pretty much will not go away, you now have whatever he did on the back of your mind and once you lose trust it is almost impossible to get it back. That is why you feel so weird around him. Its this little thing called resentment. He screwed up and now you are still mad and hurt about it so you hold resentment towards him. The only way to try to get it to go away is to forgive him for what he has done. But don't forget that there are somethings that are just not excusable and it is up to you to decide if what he did is that serious. Good luck sweety!!!! GUYS SUCK
2006-10-09 04:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by HappyMama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever he did to lose your trust, he must work on not doing that ever again. It's hard enough to gain one's trust, but to lose it and try to gain it again, is even harder. If you love him and want to work things out, you'll have to forgive and forget. If he does it again, you'll have to find a way to let him go. You're worth more than that to continue letting someone step all over you just because you're a forgiving person. Good luck!
2006-10-09 04:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him until you know whats going on in his head. Ask him questions ;). It'd really be terrible to leave him for no valid reason.
2006-10-09 04:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by JU510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it was awkward, you were breaking up. Not possible to feel comfortable doing so.
2006-10-09 04:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch what you say infront of him. Ya'll just need to take a little time apart or just take it slow.
2006-10-09 04:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by SugarBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM MOVE ON. IT ONLY SHOWS YOUR IMMATURITY.
2006-10-09 04:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋